I feel like I messed my life up, regarding dating and women?

[Loser94]

I'm no good at these so I'll just speak my mind... I am 28 years old and I am still a virgin In all aspects of the word, never even had my first kiss.

So I was thinking about my life and I've realized I have done nothing with myself to even try to attach or even impress a woman into looking at me or even thinking about me in any positive sexual way. I can't drive... I'm not all ripped or jacked up... barely any money to myself it all goes to my mom and disabled sister... I feel like I've always screwed myself at having an interesting dating life too because of my insecurities about myself regarding being intimate.

Have I missed out completely of ever getting a girlfriend. It's not like I'm saving myself God knows that's a dumb saying like saving yourself till marriage will ever prevent the other from cheating on you because of your lack of experience.

I see happy loving cute couples together all the time and I'm always sitting alone with myself and ugh man you can only sit and eat alone for so long at the lunch table before you start seeing yourself as just that. Cause I wish I could have that sure heartbreak comes with relationships but that's why we grow and learn from it

I think at 28 years old it's too late for me to even try without looking like desperate freak or a sex craved loser

I feel like I have all this potential to be a real chick magnet but I let my own insecurities and faults stop me from even trying.

Also finally things here. Is 28 to old to still be a virgin in now times?

[Minxxie]

TBH a virgin is better than a porn-addicted pervert who mindlessly hooks up with whoever will have him... which are super common nowadays.

I also feel weird about being 27 and only having been with one person who I met in high school but sometimes that's just how life works out I guess.

If someone is attracted to you and they are enjoying getting to know you they aren't going to care that you are a virgin. No need to ask you to get an STD test!

I was dating a really inexperienced guy and I thought he was cute but then he was a horrible kisser, which would have also been okay, except he just couldn't take direction at all. I would tell him how I wanted to be kissed (ei. don't just slam your open mouth on my mouth? and then suck on my bottom lip?) but he just kept doing it his way!

sooo that kind of fizzled out... But really if you pay attention to a woman's responses to things like kissing and sex and communicate clearly then you are already ahead of most guys with a ton of past experience. From what I hear from other women most men nowadays just want to mindlessly thrust and use their body to basically masturbate with or they just want to copy what they see in porn.

I think other men will judge you a lot more than women will... and like who are you trying to have a relationship with? Not the men!

[Guy13]

Go to a Christian Bible believing and thumping church and the Rich guys' virgin daughter (s) will grab you up as sacred prize. Do not expect the secular world to be impressed...

[Jamie05rhs]

Why are your mom and sister taking all of your money? Did your father die?

[Loser94]

Never was in the picture to begin with. And my sister is disabled and mother in nearly 70

[Jamie05rhs]

@Loser94 That's a tough situation, man. I'm sorry.

But as long as you continue letting your mother use you, you will never have a life of your own. That is just the sad truth.

[Loser94]

Nothing I can do about it

[moviedude714]

not unheard of for cases like this

[In_Trance]

28 is way too old. Get it together