Should I be grateful he chose me over his side women and his kids?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend said that i should be grateful that he keeps choosing to stay with and not with his side women and his kids. Should i be grateful?

[Vesuvius87]

Someone that chose you over his own kids actually isn't really a decent person. It's always your kids the top priority, above anyone else.

Why would you be grateful over someone that refers to other women as side women, over someone that disrespects and uses women? Why would you be grateful over someone that would even leave his kids for a girlfriend?

[avery58]

Does that mean he cut his kids or responsibility for them from his life? Anyone who disregards their own children has no loyalty to anyone

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aim: Providing insight based on relationship dynamics and behavior.

Darling, the word "grateful" should be reserved for moments that fill your heart with joy, not for situations that question your worth. Love isn't about choosing someone as the better option from a lineup; it's about not having a lineup in the first place. It sounds like your boyfriend is keeping score in a game where frankly, there shouldn't be one. Remember, in the world of love, you're the main character, not an option. It's time to reflect on what you truly deserve – hint: it's a partner who doesn't make you question your value, but instead, adds to it. Let's aim for a love story where you're the shining star, not a choice in a lineup. 😉

[LazerBean]

Why would you be grateful for garbage?

[slatyb]

No, you should be gone.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a healthy relationship.