Why did he say if he was single he would date me instead of marrying his current wife?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Means he's not in a good marriage and wants to get with you. Trying to be cool. Like indirectly asking if your into hooking up with married guys.

But he's married, so its up to you... don't think he'll just fall love and leave his wife if that's what you're asking.

[Asker]

Why did he propose

[Dragonpurple]

Often that means someone likes you or would give you a chance, in say another life. Essentially just means that he is unavailable and it will never happen but had life gone differently for both of you, who knows what would/could of happened.

Of course you'd have to be on board with that too.

[Asker]

he's getting married quite soon March 2022

[Dragonpurple]

Ah the question made it sound like he was already married, when he is just engaged.

It means he likes you, but he also likes his fiancé. Sounds like he has made his decision and is sticking with it. The other things still apply though, another life or another time like if he had never met his finance then he would of asked you out.

Usually when you hear about guys like this, its cause they are a priest or for whatever reason unavailable and it just means that if things had turned out differently.

[Asker]

So why did he ask to get a hotel room and trying to cheat?

[Dragonpurple]

You didn't say that in the question, I did not know about that... that just makes him a loser jerk, stay away from him. If he is willing to cheat on his fiancé he will no doubt cheat on you someday.

[Yourfriend2021]

Maybe you are nicer and prettier and his wife is mistreating him.

[Asker]

Why did he propose if he's not sure

[Yourfriend2021]

You have to ask him. I wouldn't do that.

[Asker]

I'd say I'm the same sort of attractiveness as his girlfriend now so it's weird

[Yourfriend2021]

But maybe you're sweeter and he met you after her, so now he regrets it.

[Asker]

He won't be able to get out now they have created a big friend circle around that relationship and I think she is about to give birth

[Toldol2]

Thats what he thinks.

[jasco]

Because he likes you more than his wife

[Asker]

he's getting married in March 2022

[jasco]

well it is what it is

[Asker]

Why is he getting married if he feels that way

[jasco]

I don't know

[t-8900]

He might feel trapped for giving his word... or he's lying and trying to get with you for fun or to get his ego stroked

[Asker]

@t-8900 what do you mean feel trapped

[t-8900]

He feels an obligation and doesn't see a way out through internal conflict

[Asker]

@t-8900 nah he's in to deep now it would hard to get out 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

I guess he thinks you’re better and prettier

[Asker]

he's getting married in March 2022

[Opinion Owner]

Would you go out with him if he canceled it? Maybe he is hoping you will

[Asker]

He asked to get a hotel room and so why is he trying to cheat

[Opinion Owner]

One last fling or 2 before he is officially married I guess

[Asker]

Probably only proposed to keep his girlfriend and family happy 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah most likely

[briii123]

the guy's a scumbag. period.

[LegendaryIcon]

he's cheating

[Asker]

It's not cheating?

[LegendaryIcon]

oh it def. is

[Asker]

Why do propose to people if your not 100%

[LegendaryIcon]

the girl i like, got married under false pretenses. she thought it gets better. she never loved him. she just had his kids, thats all. they're divorcing, and she's trying to get full custody. he was horrible to her

[LegendaryIcon]

she's bi