He was single for years so why did he want to date me?

[Anonymous]

[Middleman]

Because perhaps he no longer wants to be single? That's why they date?
Is he the shy type? If so that might explain why he took so long (to date you).

[Asker]

I oy just met him a month ago. I meant why was he single for a long time before me

[Asker]

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[Middleman]

I see. Well as to that question, that really varies between people. Unless he is willing to answer that himself I would guess a lot of the times it was down to possibly either not enough confidence, was rather shy, not finding/meeting the right person or more likely that it was due to financial issues. You'd be surprised how many guys would only date when they have a job/career and are financially stable.

[glennos89]

because he liked you probably

[In_Trance]

Because you were available