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Not all women of course but here's the question. And don't think of it as a complaint.

If the man is "supposed" to do everything in the relationship and even before that:

• Approach the woman (woman number 467)
• Think of a reason to talk to the woman (among what subjects she won't find boring)
• Communicate with her (unless she ignores you or she doesn't reply, doesn't even say hi or contacts you herself)
• Ask her out
• Entertain her somehow (and don't make a fool of yourself)
• Possibly also pay for everything if she's broke, a cheapskate (or gold digger)

That means the guy does literally all the work in the relationship. And the woman does what exactly? Wait and sit around for something to happen? The point is if women really want a nice boyfriend, then how about they be more proactive themselves and not wait for miracles to happen? They can make things happen. It seems women by themselves literally go nowhere or do nothing at all (other than sitting at home on instagram) by themselves until someone (typically men) invites them.
Are y'all lazy, ashamed, shy, weak, helpless or what are you women waiting for? I mean you can be strong enough to get a degree and find a job and finance your living, yet when it comes to love y'all be like absolutely helpless and powerless.