If the man is "supposed" to do everything in the relationship and even before that:
- Approach the woman (woman number 467)
- Think of a reason to talk to the woman (among what subjects she won't find boring)
- Communicate with her (unless she ignores you or she doesn't reply, doesn't even say hi or contacts you herself)
- Ask her out
- Entertain her somehow (and don't make a fool of yourself)
- Possibly also pay for everything if she's broke, a cheapskate (or gold digger)
Are y'all lazy, ashamed, shy, weak, helpless or what are you women waiting for? I mean you can be strong enough to get a degree and find a job and finance your living, yet when it comes to love y'all be like absolutely helpless and powerless.