Does she still like me?

[Anonymous]

This girl used to like me and I liked her too and I know she liked me because she gave me all the signs and she like me for about a year and a half but that last time we hangout together I told her as a joke that I would not date her so she called me like a month after we last saw eachother in person but after that she stopped calling me and texting me so four months later I just decided to tell her if she used to like me but she didn't respond so i decide to stop watching her stories because I thought that If I didn't It would help me heal faster but I know she checks if I view her story and about a month an a half goes by and she text me first and I respond back and then she didn't reply and then I text her and she didn't respond so know I don't know what to do and I know this is bad but I stalked her tik tok and she's reposting stuff about a guy and it's not about me so I don't know what to do does she still like me or what I don't know what to do.

[_Maya_]

I mean there is always a chance that she could still like you. She also may have moved on. I am not sure why you would joke about not wanting to date her and then hope to date her. If she took that the wrong way or meaning you didn't have interest... you kinda screwed yourself on that one. She may have just decided that since you don't l Ike her (according to the "joke") that she should just move on. Don't read into the whole watching stories and tik tok nonsense. That means absolutely nothing in the scheme of things. That isn't any indication whether she likes you or not. The best option is to reach out and see how a conversation goes.

[Asker]

Should I just tell her it was a joke I feel like it's to late for that but worth the shot

[_Maya_]

I wouldn't lead with that but you can certainly drop that in a conversation.

[Asker]

She dosent respond to me tho but ik she sees it so I think I should just start with that

[_Maya_]

I guess there is nothing to lose really.

[Asker]

I also want to know why just texted me first out of nowhere just to not reply when I respond

[Asker]

She*

[Asker]

Sorry for the error I meant to say why did she text me first then not reply when I responded

[_Maya_]

That I honestly can't say. No clue why she would reach out to just not reply. Doesn't make sense.

[Asker]

I just told her and she didn't respond

[Abbycado]

Maybe she didn't take the joke about dating her as a joke and moved on.

[Asker]

Why would she text me first just to not respond when I respond

[Nikki1989]

You need to grow up and stop the social media meaningless. Learn how to communicate in a mature way and you might get somewhere.

[HappyWoman34]

Talk to her about it.

[Asker]

I did and she didn't respond

[HappyWoman34]

Oh…then give it time and wait longer?

[Iron_Man]

She’s a head game player