I would consider myself feminine, a rarity nowadays for sure. Some men find it charming, but what ever you do there will always be some critics, so don't do what everyone else wants because you cannot please everyone. Be yourself. Real femininity is endearing to men, and almost impossible to hate. I mostly find it's other women who bad mouth me, which usually stems from a place of jealousy and is easily ignored.
At a sort of camp last summer I noticed a group of guys were making fun of me behind my back. But after awhile we actually talked and I became friends with some of them. As it turns out, there's really nothing to make fun of.
I like both badasses and femme girls.
But I prefer badasses.
I have some femme friends who are inner badasses, but prefer a soft style. I like those kinds of femme girls.
Femme girls who are just weak and spineless have this double-negative effect in my head. They're not just weak in mind, but weak in look.
As a more masculine styled woman, I admire when women pull of amazingly beautiful, feminine clothing. I think some women look amazing dressed like that. I prefer more futuristic/cold of a look, with strong lines and a more geometric look.
Oh yeah, guys like girls. Especially feminine ones or girly ones. As long as they’re not plastic or Barbie dolls. But “badass girls” or these “tough girls” always come off as bitchy and annoying and I can’t ever take them seriously. So when love feminine women they are the best. (I’m not saying girls can’t be bad ass I’m saying that girls who try to act all gung-ho and masculine are annoying and bossy and get on people’s nerves. Just clarifying now because in today’s world you can’t say anything critical of women without being labeled a villain)
I like feminine women as long as they're not so girly that they can't function. Hormonal, kind of walking vaginas with no higher mental function. Those kinds of girls are a thing to. I'm more into the pioneer women that can take care of themselves. They're feminine but they can handle life too. Often the bad ass types are "feminists" actually Marxist filled with perverted ideology and thinking so abnormal that they don't even act human, maybe what's human has just rotted away in them making something like an actual zombie.
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What do you think of "Practical femininity" ? That's something I like. You can be girly and know how to take care of yourself. Women with practical skills are attractive. Some women make their own clothes, can grow their food, stuff like that. You can do all that in a skirt.
It’s a shame that it isn’t as common as it used to be. I blame feminism and the media who’ll tell men that masculinity is toxic and tell women that they need to be strong and independent and don’t need a man. There’s nothing wrong with being feminine just like there’s nothing wrong for a man to be masculine.
I have no problem with a feminine girl obviously but I do mind if "feminine" becomes an excuse for her to be week, dependent, and needy. I have no patience for a girl who can't do anything on her own or isn't willing to. This what I find attractive in the badass type, the fact that they don't need you but stick around anyway.
Funny you say that cause it’s opposite where I live. I’m very feminine but I’m independent as well and guys immediately see that as a turn off. They go for the girls who are “badass/sexy” looking but those are the girls that are very dependent, needy and use the guys for their money in exchange for sex. Guys usually say they want something specific in a girl but at the end of the day, they will take whoever is easiest to get in bed. Even if they’re needy. Guys want constant access to sex and they want to feel like the “provider” in a relationship. Looking back now, I kinda wish I wouldn’t have gotten independent because guys really don’t like that. They say I’m non-traditional and a feminist because I have more than they do. That’s why when I meet guys I don’t instantly talk about what I have. I just let them figure it out and hopefully one day I can come across someone who accepts me for me.
If you are who you chose to be then that should be enough. Don't regret it because some "guy" decided you're not feminine enough for him.
I know it's pointless for me to say it here but from you told me you are definitely my type and I also find girls like you a rarity. But if I exist then someone who thinks like me does too (maybe) dont give up.
Thank you:)
Just do you. Who cares if it's out of style. And don't try to impress men. When you love yourself the right kind of people become interested in you.
I still do with the ability to work hard. The first pic is close to how I live; my girlfriend wears a dress even while picking tomatoes with her bare feet in the dirt. She does wear jeans and boots out driving a tractor, horse riding or working the animals.
Abso-most-def-certainly!
That is, in fact, the only type of woman I find alluring or am ever interest in. The rest are, well, think of it as dykes or fakes.
(of course, te jealous sporty or big-bum types then go throw this 'ewww, you're too old to be dating her' mud in their jealousy (at her))
I want a confident girlfriend. She needs to keep up with me and my dog when we walk. If she laughs about walking 4 miles a day and could do double that easily that's good. I walk 4 miles with my dog a day and I don't mind walking another 6 or so if the situation requires it.
I like these kinds of girls along with tomboys. What I like is if you are genuine with yourself.
All this 'bad bitch' stuff is not really genuine except for a few girls. So you will attract somebody who likes what you're doing. If that's being authentic, then they'll like you for you. And that's how to fall in love (the real thing).
I think a large majority of men still prefer feminine women. I’ve noticed that men tend to like tradition more than women, and traditionally, women “act feminine”.
Most normal guys do. The only people who think that a woman being a "badass" is sexy are feminists, and they're just backwards.
Odd idea of what constitutes as feminine female. But no the general consensus in America today is that transgender women are most attractive. So in essence about 50% of men in America today report that mtf transitions are deemed the most sexually attractive
That cannot possibly be true. Maybe in the 80s when all the models looked like skinny men. Definitely not today.
I do, and I seem to be the only such man left in my social circle 🙋🏻♂️ Many men I know now are dating girls who dress more masculine than they do 🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤮 I only save myself for elegant, feminine women — or live/die as a singleton 💃🏻😍
@StephenCF i love feminine dresses😍💄👠👗i'll be a stylish elegant woman in your dreams with your help. you'll guide my fashion and i'll guide you to islam😊😊you will be my fashion advisor😁
I don't think being badass and sexy is in anyway mutually exclusive with being feminine. Regardless, if you prefer a more delicate/dainty look, just go for it.
I love them but what I love even more is a hot feminine girly girl that can get down in the mud and dirt 1 min with a smile and can go jump in the shower and become Mrs Girly Girl
You rock. It's find to be able to be athletic, bold and adventurous at times, but I can't imagine a guy who doesn't adore women who are delicate, sweet, pretty and feminine.
Just because most girls are following a fad doesn't mean all the guys are liking it and the guys that are just chasing the girls that are chasing fads most likely are worth worrying about
Yeah , I do. And its quite rare to find feminine girls these days. Tbh it totally depends on people. Like I know that a girly girl is really cute and shy and i find it amusing!
Girly/feminine still has almost universal appeal. It's more often seen in Europe but men everywhere go for it.
most people still like those. don't believe the dumb media hype. look at reality. guys don't love boss ass bitches.
I think I speak for the majority of guys when I say we MUCH prefer feminine women over women who feel like they need to act like men. I hope femininity is not going extinct, but it sure seems like it is.
The look, of course. Personality wise, in having a strong personality myself, I find women with stronger personalities/assertive, tend to better gel with my own personality best.
Guys tend to prefer that feminine/girly look. I'm not too sure why so many women gravitate towards Tomboy styles. Some women can pull off the badass look, but if you're a woman; be a woman.
@kim45456 Huh, yeah I guess it would be... never thought about it
With some exceptions, guys are most attracted to women who look and act like women. This modern trend of women emulating manly traits is a huge turnoff.
Women are women, but for myself I like a softer woman that is strong in what she wants in life, but still has that so very feminine touch and look.
I do, in fact I prefer it (though as you said, its getting rarer these days).
I think its very charming. I also dont think that this style is going anywhere anytime soon.
dont worry, be yourself. There are a ton of guys who are into that look
Yeah, but unfortunately you just don’t meet girls like this anymore... It’s really a shame.
Girly and feminine girls are my favorite "type "of girls.
Sure, it is still liked.
Not everyone but plenty.
Just do what you want, don't care about what anyone else thinks. Respect everyone else's preferences.
They haven’t gone outta style for me. I don’t know when everybody wanted to be hardcore and outlaws but just gotta take that extra view to find the right her
I think you mean "modest," not "feminine." Sexy girls can be (and often are) very feminine. That's why a lot of guys like them.
You will never go out of style my dear. Feminine girly girls are a treasure indeed. Then again so are tomboys and every variation in between. Be yourself be true to you and you will be magnificent.
Girls convince themselves that guys want a "badass bitch". In reality most guys want the girl next door/ sweet feminine type
hell yeah, I honestly prefer those types of girls mostly
I find girly girls overrated
Man, tomboys are badass and much more dominant
Children like "badass", men like feminine. Ask yourself what sort of partner you'd like to meet.
Yes in fact the librarian look is the hottest thing
I believe most men, myself included, prefer girls to be feminine, but people can live their lives the way they want.
You mean just a look?
That one I like.
Or full on family orientated, do not want to work type?
That reminds me gold diggers...
I love girly girls the more girly they are the better
I still do !! If a girl is "too badass", I find her annoying. LOL
Most people? Liking "badass/sexy" girls doesn't mean you don't like the "feminine/girly" ones.
Feminine "girly girls" are the only ones for me. I'm not attracted to anything else.
Badass females aren't attractive to me either sis😔
I do, I don't know anyone who likes masculine girls. Maybe those with a tomboy fetish?
Not at all out of style I still prefer a feminine girl they are the prettiest girl of all
I'm not sure why a badass style is more popular. I don't know any guys who want a "badass" Girlfriend/Wife.
But I dp like girly girls
Absolutely. MOST men not only like, we LOVE feminine women. I dated a couple of "manly women" and I will never, ever do that again.
It's really subjective! Don't try to be something that you think people love. Just be yourself.
Sure! Personally I want a girl who can handle herself - which I feel is independent of aesthetic.
Woman are you under a rock they are the highest in demand
guys still like the "girly girls," we just don't like being yelled at for liking them.
Lool I am always super girly just the way a girl should be
Girly girl is the real girl, other than that they have other lables
I think feminine is still so attractive
A good mix is what I like as I don't want to have to do everything myself it should be a shared thing so I prefer a girl who can be both feminine but at the same time not overly relient
Sure but the mentality matters a lot more than the looks
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