You should both dive deep into philosophy. Like stoicism, for example - it provides many answers for life-related questions and it will surely help, I assure you of that. Or religion, if you are that type of a person. Marcus Aurelius (Meditations) is a great start on finding out who you want to be and what do you want to do with your life.
Other than that, you can do nothing. He needs to realise that there are certain values in life that should be prioritised instead of pure nihilism, depressions etc. Good luck!
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I used to be a lot like that; He probably likes you & second guessing himself along with all the other crap teens have to deal with; if he's anything like I was he'll push you away when you get too close. He has his walls up & doesn't want to lower them just to get hurt.
I wonder if he has a crush on you do you think he might want to date you?
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"Just depression and crap" lol that's me. I know how that goes. Getting him some good music is a great idea. Music is everything to some of us, and if we get into the dark kind, it really can keep us in a bad place. Being active is something that helps me. Physical stuff, outside in the sun. I be living in the parks this summer. As for the anxiety, you can't really do anything but learn how to handle it. We still gonna have our freakout moments. But small steps would include starting to do more group activities where people can slowly get used to social situations and people without feeling too overwhelmed and stuff. I don't know. *shrugs*
Hmm so i guess you can't hang out with him after school or something? Do you have his number or social media? Maybe send him like yourube videos or such you find funny and maybe he will like it. Also maybe try talking to him about his depression maybe he will open up to you one day. im glad he’s helping you out at least… maybe you should tell him that. He might find it endearing.
Could it be he caught some serious feelings for you and doesn't know how to deal with them?
Most guys are afraid to tell girls how they feel about them.
Maybe casually/subtlety start a conversation about it. Don't push to say any certain thing but at least open the door and see what he has to say? if anything.Just don't worry about it and it will work itself out.
Many times I use sad songs just so I can cry, I know it sounds strange maybe send him some happy songs and they can be any kind
He feels insecure. It will take some time. Ur comforting him so well. He might fall in love with u
He needs a distraction.
Talk on the phone, instead of texting
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