Search Results: scared of getting hurt

Boyfriend went away for weekend?

Boyfriend went away for the weekend to the seaside for his friend's birthday party. We were together on the day before leaving and we've been spending time together almost every day so we agreed it's good that we will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to tell him my true feelings?

There’s a mutual attraction between myself and a coworker. We went on a few dates last summer but he told me he didn’t want anyone getting hurt - he went through a difficult breakup with his ex a year before. We’ve...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Not showing my personality turned him away but I acted that way bc he seemed to be wanting one thing, so was he actually trying to get to know me?

We knew each other for years he knew I was a great girl and would always tell me that. He said his heart simply never clicked but when we first met years ago i knew he wasn’t over his ex. He was still hurt so I shut down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I met someone new but my recent breakup is too fresh. what should I do?

So basically I just got out of a 3.5 relationship. It’s only been less then 3 months since the breakup but I’m having trouble moving on. Well I ended up meeting a girl a month after the breakup on complete accident....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How often should you see a friends with benefits if you just got out of a relationship and catch feelings quick?

He hasn’t exactly told me that we are friends with benefits but I get the vibe that we are because he always wants sex when were together, however lately he has been asking to see me a lot more than usual and we are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What can I do about this situation with my boyfriend?

I have been dating this guy for nearly a year and I really like him, but I am getting really bored with doing the same thing every time I see him (we go to his house and just chill out) I personally don't like routine and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Is it normal to have a flight reaction during scary moments?

I did this twice, literally ran. In both times, the person kept calling out my name. 1st time: I was 16 at the time, saw a friend get bullied and not wanting to fight the bully nor his two followers... I ran away....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I really like him but it’s getting really hard. Should I leave?

I’ve liked this guy for years, he’s the only one I’ve genuinely liked. Over the years I know he’s sort of kept an eye on me but has always had a girlfriend. He broke up with her sometime ago. He started casually seeing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Guy trouble - advice needed?

I have a long distance guy friend who I have feelings for and he said he feels the same but sometimes I'm not so sure his feelings are genuine. He has told me that he doesn't want to lose me and sends me a red heart emoji...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I'm all alone and I feel lonely. What should I do?

I'm scared of ended up being all alone. I always wanted to create a happy family with someone as I come from a broken home. But right now I have no one in my life that likes me back. Seeing my friends in their 20s all...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, I cannot ask him but I really need help please guide me?

He wants me to search a girl for him so that he can have sexual relationship with her on the other hand he sends me a photo of a girl and says he got a marriage proposal and he really liked the girl... I really like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal to be scared of someone you find highly attractive?

I can't stand being around this guy, it's not him its me. I always go so red and shy and can't even look him in the eyes whenever he's around me. I always make the excuse that I'm feeling ill and I need to head off...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is being friends with an ex a bad idea?

After months of being pretty bitter I’ve agreed to be friends with an ex. He use to reach out trying to reconcile and it made me so mad because I felt he was being insincere. He suffers from depression and has a lot of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Was I right to break up with him?

I've been seeing a guy for about 4 months now. We see each other every weekend and all weekend and we also text everyday. 2 days ago i asked him how does he feel about me and he said he's not sure. I asked what does he...

CleoNicole

Xper 6 Age: 37

Dating

Why do I keep getting ghosted and how do I prevent it from happening? How to find straight-forward men?

I've had a very amazing share of love and romance. My longest happy relationship lasted 3 years and things ended amicably. It's not always down for me. But lately I feel like I'm always getting ghosted. It doesn't always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Home Chats

"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Dating

He has reservations because of his past relationships but really likes me?

So I’ve been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks, talking for about a month. We have been intimate already. We talk on the phone 2 times a day and text constantly all day. He is always the one initiating the phone calls He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Will I regret getting my nose pierced?

i just turned 21 and have been thinking about getting my nose pierced when i was 20, so it hasn't been long but I've been planning it a while already. a friend told me its something she didn't expect i'd do, knowing who i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I'm starting to feel like a bad person, I'm not sure what I should do and I'm starting to feel suicidal?

just the last couple days have been absolutely awful for me, I've felt better today but not by much. so my ex was 15 and I was 18 and when we broke up I was 20 and she was 17, it's completely legal where I from. where...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why are men acting like this?

Men are provoked by women dressing half naked? lmao wow I honestly realized that this is why I dont date anymore. haha they can't control it? just saw tons of tik toks today of men approaching 16, 17 year old girls which...

faultygemini

Xper 1 Age: 29