It’s normal to feel that way. Sometimes when you love someone too much you’re scared that they will hurt you and the trust you have for them. I actually think that the communication you guys had was really good for the 2 of you— setting your boundaries and what you expect. You are allowed to want reassurance that he won’t cheat, but I advise you to maybe text him something like “ hey baby, I hope you’re having lots of fun !🎊 I just wanted to let you know I miss you and I you’re always in my thoughts❤️ I was feeling a little down today, I can’t wait to see you again so we can talk ! :)” and talk to him In person that you were having those thoughts.
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Just to make sure I am understanding everything here. You guys talked he said he wanted an honest and committed relationship, you disagreed?, and now you're worried he's going to cheat while he's away?
I'm just confused with the contradictions here, at least in my mind. I mean your fine with the label of boyfriend but not a commitment. I would have assumed based off of the labels in the relationship the commitment aspect would be implied. Sounds like you guys might need to have more of these discussions to ensure that you are both on the same page as to the direction of the relationship.
As far as reaching out, if you want to talk to him do it. I've never understood the hesitation to reach out to someone your in a relationship with.
Since it sounds like you're still fairly early in the relationship, I'd probably wait if you didn't make specific plans in advance about making contact while he's gone. It's not that long and if he's off with friends they might be busy doing things and if he doesn't respond right away, you might get anxious about what he's doing. You have specific plans to meet when he's back so I think I'd wait until then and he can tell you all about his weekend.
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