he goes to these underground poker games. And stays out then sleeps at one of his friends. I've told him that this isn’t normal and he shouldn't be doing this 3 nights in a row.
what should i do?
He might doing that on purpose to punish you for going on vacation without him, because he is worried forcing you to not go will be seen as too intrusive, but making you regret going is an easier way to control your future vacation decisions. Text him and say you will file a missing person’s report if he does not appear because you don’t know where he is and are worried about his safety.
The only thing you can do is in how you react. If you don’t like his behavior, don’t reward his behavior.
If you're allowed to go out partying for a whole weekend, why isn't he allowed to the the same for an extra day? If you dont want him to be going out alone and for long periods of time, dont do that to him. You get what you give sweetheart.
Talk to him about it and make it clear (calmly) that you don't want him to do that again.
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Call the cops for a missing persons report, or just lock him out. If he can’t respect you then he can leave.
Have u not spoken to him
Call him
lol hypocrite