Boyfriend is not talking to me it's been 3 days?

[Anonymous]

I just gave birth and I had to get an c section. Me and boyfriend also have a 1 year old. I can't do much around and I asked if he can take off of work for 2 to 3 days and help out. He got pissy and said he has to work and save money for a house. I also needed him to to take me to her first pediatrician appointment but he declined. I don't have transportation and it's hard to carry two babies around by myself with stitches. We got into an argument and I called him a bitch. Now he's not talking to me. Should I reach out to him?

[boggboss]

That wpuld seem best unless your looking to be a single parent his behaviour seems shit but this is the man u picked ti have kids with surly u knew this is how he behaved

[Anonymous]

Did he want a baby? Either way there’s no excuse for that behavior, but if he wasn’t ready to be a dad and not interested now then it would explain why he’s not being helpful. If you have anyone else that can help, family or a friend (even friends) then maybe you should reach out to them. Yes it’s annoying and stupid since you have your baby’s dad around but if he won’t help then it’s a waste of time arguing about it especially if you plan on staying with him.