Boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in 3 weeks?

[Anonymous]

I put forth more effort than my boyfriend does. I initiate every single conversation. So I decided to back off and see what he does.

... Three weeks have gone by, and he still hasn't said anything to me... We've been together for about a year.

What now? Should I say anything to him, or just leave it at that?

[diosadelanoche]

Have you ever mentioned this to him? After a year, you two should be comfortable communicating with each other rather than "testing" each other. That said, no communication for 3 weeks is kind of unacceptable in a serious relationship, unless there's some kind of emergency and he's been unable to contact you. I would contact him and figure out what's going on. If he claims he's just been "busy," it's just possible that he isn't taking the relationship seriously for one reason or another, and you should probably move on.

[3boys4me]

Sorry but it sounds like he broke up w you and isn't man enough to actually say it to your face. He pulled the classic fadeout. It's over girl. Move on. After a year you deserve a lot better then that. Hopefully you will choose a little more wisely in the future.

[lilagirl]

I would be worried. If you know he is OK and is just ignoring you then he has broken up with you by being a coward. If you don't know he's OK then I would be worried on his health..

[Dionysos]

Is he in the hospital/jail/morgue/etc?

[Anonymous]

Blow him off