My boyfriend has been ignoring me for 3 days?

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure what I’ve done wrong? all I can think of is one of the days I said ‘no good morning today?’ And one of the days last week I said ‘you haven’t let me know yet about the time you are free’ ? Everything was fine? The last text he sent was ‘I’ve bought you a speaker’ so I responded and I have heard nothing back. We have only been exclusive for 1 month I haven’t met his friends yet or parents? Is what I said to him rude? I’m so confused? I’m at work and it’s playing on my mind constantly to the point I feel like I’m not even at work. It says he hasn’t been online on much but I’m so concerned was I rude for what I said about saying you didn’t say good morning?

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1 y

I’ve just text him saying ‘If you’re gonna treat me like this it tells me everything I need to know’ and still. No response. Was I to naggy in terms of the good morning? But he was fine after I said that the last text he sent was ‘I’ve bought you something’ and he was begging for forgiveness for not saying good morning!

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1 y

Apart of me is thinking because I haven’t had sex with him yet but I don’t known

[ElvenMr]

Slow down. He didn't leave you. You really like him and you've fallen into the trap of wanting too much too soon. You are suffocating him kinda. How do i know this, because i've fallen into this trap before and it made me look less desirable.
People are not always in the mood to talk and send texts, or they are just busy and tired.

[Asker]

I know but 3 days? I’m quite a needy person well not needy I just ask for the bare minimum such as saying morning or for example he’s made plans and told me he will let me know and never lets me know? Do. I just not text him at all?

[Asker]

I haven’t said a word since Friday

[ElvenMr]

Did he say he'll be busy on the weekend maybe? What kind of hobbies does he have? I assume he never did this before, so that's why it feels weird that he doesn't message you.

Good morning texts shouldn't be hard to do, but maybe he doesn't want to do it every day you know?
Being needy is not a bad thing. in my opinion there is a thin line between being cute and needy and the needy and obsessive.

He will text you, you just have to wait. You can text him too, but just do it as you normally would and don't expect hat he will reply fast.

[Asker]

He’s always busy over the weekend. He always goes out and usually only takes a day it’s just been a long time since he’s responded. Yeahh I personally think I’ve been a cute clingy all I said was about the good morning text and that’s literally it!

[ElvenMr]

So it's not so unusual for him to do this. Don't worry :)
Yea, you are the good kind of clingy. You just have to wait for him now to message you.

But you can talk about this with him if it's really bothering you, that he is busy on weekends. Tell him that you'd like to spend time with him on the weekends too sometimes.

[DribbleGodCurt]

I feel bad for you i think you might have got played.

[Asker]

I just don’t get it, did I say anything wrong? I’m really so confused?

[Asker]

I was thinking to surprise him and like send him a sexy photo too and I don’t know if to still do that anymore? I’m upset but I don’t think it’s really hit me

[DribbleGodCurt]

Yeah i understand if he isn't responding he's probably cheating just saying men are usually dumb and not loyal bc they are influenced by rappers.

[DribbleGodCurt]

and also if he hasn't introduced you to his family and you're dating that's crazy. Bc that's the whole point of dating to get to know the person you want to be with and how are you supposed to know the person without meeting their family, Bc family is very important i mean they are the people that are gonna be there for the wedding if you have one.

[Asker]

I just feel like he asked me out so soon after only 3 dates and I feel like he just regrets it now. He’s 25 and I’m 20. I just don’t understand. Shall I call him or is that desperate? He even told me that in past relationships he just ghosts people. I told him to please not do that with me I have abdonment issues and I don’t deserve that and he said he’d never leave.

[Asker]

But I’m starting to think he just wanted sex

[DribbleGodCurt]

He might have just wanted sex especially if he never introduced you to his parent's, i'm 20 and have been in like 15 relationships ngl, which is a lot.

[WhitneySnow]

He’s just super busy

[Anonymous]

Well, since you're single ill take you.