My Boyfriend has been Ignoring me?

[Anonymous]

I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 months now since he had moved away for University. (One thing you need to know about me is I am diagnosed with BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder) Everything was fine, until a little bit ago. He's been ignoring me; which has caused severe emotional torture for many days now. It's been about 6 days. He claimed he's overly stressed and hasn't really talked to anybody. He hasn't said he loved me, nothing. he told me this 3 days into his ignoring spree. yet, he said his ignoring spree has nothing to do with me. I've caught him up and clearly playing games with other people, but I am not invited. I've sent him many, many text messages; even ones where I've said I needed to talk about our Relationship and he hasn't said a word to me. He won't open them, reply, nothing. He knows I've been going through something very difficult and he hasn't
been here for me. He knows my Mental Health issue is severe, more than it ever was right now and he has just been avoiding and ignoring. I've been understanding, supportive and willing to give him time, but even when he would message me for literally 45 seconds after 3 days, he called me by my first name, didn't say anything love like towards me and since then i've been avoided and left feeling unloved, worthless and confused. Does anyone have any idea of why this is happening? What does this mean?
Serious Answers only please...

[Anonymous]

To me it sounds like you are putting yourself through way too much in order to stay in that relationship. Your mental health absolutely has to come before any man or relationship, no matter how much you love him or how much you want things to work. If how he’s acting now is any indication of what you have to expect in the future, then there is no way you should sign up for more torment and trauma. Your top priority right now should NOT be trying to saving that relationship, it should be trying to save and better yourself.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

As I've told everyone, LDR don't normally work out & it sounds like this is that case here. Sounds to me like you need to back off & live your life without him. You sound dependant on him for your mental stability & that is something you need to talk to your therapist about, because a healthy relationship neither of you are dependant on the other, you're both equal at working towards a happy life.

[jshm2]

Never date crazy, is a rule, and never breed genetic defects is something few realise until too late.

He's realised you are crazy, and is scared you might have some genetic defects to boot.

[Asker]

you're dumb