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The guy I’m seeing says he really likes me a lot and wants to take things slow with me and isn’t ready to be intimate - he’s still a virgin at age 34...

his brother messaged me and invited me to a birthday/ family gathering...
now tonight when his brother was asking for me to be brought out this coming Friday, first he told me he has to ask his parents and then he said “I told you not to talk to my brother, just ignore him - I don’t want him in my business... he’s caused trouble for me before”.

is he not serious about me? Or does it seem like his bro interferes?

(His bro msgs me and asks me all the time when I’m seeing his younger brother next)

I partner up with him at some point in dance class
One day he asked me to to practice with him after class
I said yes and we practiced for a bit.
that was my chance to get his ig.
Next lesson same thingBut I asked if he would eat at the cafeteria Unfortunately he wouldn't. Next time same question but he asked if I would be staying for lunch. We hanged out for 3h that day. Next lessonwhile practicing at one point he kissed my hand after I had missed some steps. Is this acceptable when you don't know each other well. We ain't even proper friends yet. Still he seems a bit of a shy guy and not too confident. He has trouble asking questions to our dance teacher so isn't weird that he did that. But I took courage from that. While leaving I asked him whether he liked sushi and he answered very much. I told him that I won the sushi giveaway of our dance club and asked wether he wanted to go with me (sushi and drinks for 2). I could see that he froze a bit a small shock was evident on his face. He answered me "are you asking me out?" and I agreed somehow and then he asked again "are you sure? don't you wanna go with your friends?" and I said I could but I'm asking you. Then he still wasn't answering and I started panicking and I asked if he didn't wanna go and if I made it awkward but he said no it was just that nobody ever asked him out before and I said I didn't ask anyone out before either. Cause I was feeling really anxious I kept blurting things out. I also said that we were both looking around now but he said that I was doing that and he was looking at me. After that he couldn't stay for lunch so surprise surprise he took my hand and kissed it again and told me not to worry or something like that. We still haven't texted each other though. I really don't know is he just being nice to me? could he be interested? I don't know what to think at times I'm thinking positively and other times I'm really negative about it. Thank you if you read this far.