What makes you feel more disrespect for myself with having a learning disability?

[CandaceSims201]

Hi, my name is Candace and here to talk about what I find disrespect online and offline . We shouldn't judge a book by a cover for people with a learning disability they all have to tell their story. If people just listen to them in the first place .Makes them feel right about choosing what they did right and giving the right attention instead of negative attention that will go no way. Now that all out of way, let start with online and offline.

Offline

1 I get treated Like a kids or a teenage

This is what I dislike and find very respectful just because I have a learning disability doesn't mean that I am dumb . Just more than I learn less quickly than other people . Treating people with a learning disability as a kid makes them very pissed and very hurt by these types of people or users .

The learning disparities are all different .

2: People think that I am less intelligent than mainstream people .

Just because a person has a learning disability and not as intellectual but it's wrong to think like that. I have seen more intelligent learning disabilities than I have seen in the mainstream . I am part of being in the middle of intellect, I am too intellegent for people with some learning, but it is not about how intellegent enough.

3: Getting more unwanted attention from a younger age than some creeps guy .

With my experience with guys . The guy always wanted to talk to me and tried to get my attention one way or another . But some guys are attracted to me but I am not interested in any guys that are my cheater ex boyfriend's.

4: You get negative attention by younger women with a learning disability.

Some younger women trying to use my trust to get a guy that I did have a relationship with and they always succeeded. I always got into trouble in college knowing that I am not doing anything wrong . I did get bullied by girls in high school . One woman that not from my college but from one of my cheater ex boyfriend colleagues did the same thing of younger women in my college to temp a guy into cheating and having more than one girlfriend at a time . I had more than one guy that did cheat . They did make up excuses . Created drama , stare at me and sometimes in my own college they tried to force a friendship even though they knew they were one that ruined the trust . This is why I can't even trust women at all with my bad experience .

Online

1:Why do I keep making account of G@g?

I dislike the question but it shouldn't assume if a person is going to be made a quiet account . These things I always seem to get when I don't see the point of asking the question because I always delete my account before creating a new account not to make more than one account .

2:I don't understand you at all.

I dislike it because it makes you look very shallow and yet that makes me more pissed than other things . This is what I do not like when users comment on my question.

3: Getting threats by users .

Yes, this has happened sometimes, I get threats to kill myself by a user and other threats just were assuming that I am trolling . But I am not trolled .

4: User getting mad at me and using me a drama tool

It was. This one is a big one . I was one of the oldest G@G users and used to cyber bullying and people always used to put opinion on what that grammer is. Why is your grammar so bad ? Do you speak English ? I hate English . These were types of comment and that is why I delete my very older account to get away from the cybering bully .

Thanks for reading my experience with online and offline about some users and people .

[Ninaface]

I was always nervous to have my intelligence tested, but I actually have an iq around 120 to 125. But because my brain works differently with autism, people think I'm stupid and I often feel slow when it comes to anything intellectual or social. It's very frustrating, because although I'm very smart I can't communicate it. Its like having a useless talent.

[Pete671]

Bless you, I have autism and what you say resonates with me,,,

[Twalli]

Me too. Society says we're not really autistic, it's just an excuse for having poor social skills. I'd like to see people who say that try to live like we do for a week.

[Pete671]

@Twalli omg so true, either that or they don't believe it's a real condition, and even if it was you don't have it, failing utterly the enormous effort that we put in, if we struggle, we're lazy, but if we succeed we were never autistic in the first place,,,

[Joshua_blackmon]

It might be more difficult for females with learning a disability than males... , because 1 in 100 men have asd , I frankly was diagnosed with Adhd , but it was a misdiagnosis I discovered latter on my life while in the Navy , what I discovered I had was a neurological disorder.. that Isn't asd , but is related to asd , however I don't treat it as a disability.. it favors my interests.. it is my brain after all , my brain has my best interests , and so I program now.. Honestly don't recognize the male behavior of the man , who left you.. unless there is significant reasons. Do men chase you? or do you chase men? I suppose i'll say this , men are more physically judgmental than women are , and women are more socially judgmental than men are. If you believe you are attractive , physically , then as long as there's give and take.. you should be fine to find an above average man.. or an average man. who simply wants someone pretty and loving. Men are simple in their bones, complex in their mind. such as... we can have a million hobbies , but we still love generally food.. we could strike thousands of conversations.. but we prefer physical interaction.. Good luck with your search.. But being female.. i recommend you ought to try to become the one sought after instead of doing the searching.. not because you can't do the searching.. but if you seek.. the men who accept.. some of which might leave. I have been sought after.. , but frankly the trend of being asked out by a women.. i don't.. just the women im not into most of the time.. women tend to always date UP.. but unfortunately they don't have a relative balance.. for what their worth to the other person.. so being asked.. about 66% of the women I have turned down. . which makes since. however I like to be on the middle ground to be honest. neither seeking nor sought , rather a first impression.. to see if I want to move forward is usually my approach. It leaves a lot less room for doubt. So whatever your approach is, to find someone you like.. I suppose you might want to be a little less sudden , when you lack doubt that you like that person , and they like you.. that could be the way to go.. if your seeking.. you won't know underneath the skin of that man and his intent.. vise versa making friends . if your seeking. i recommend being sought if your female, because most men who are seeking, have got their shit together.. because if you say 'Yes" they know they need a car and a job to take you out.

[CandaceSims201]

i just texting a guy through Facebook that went to a learning disability special high school and he had grautude. I am bad experinece with females being super jelos and always tried to temp the guy to cheat. Only they started to chase when I did move on to someone I knew. I am not instersted in Money. being shallow. not much. some guys always say that i cute when i was in toxic job and had a female bullying. I get stare by a women in Pub when i drinking beer. I had my passport with me and did show to member of staff that was at the bar.

[Joshua_blackmon]

i wouldn't entirely say "im not interested in money"
if you want support..

[CuddlyCarla]

I think there's a misconception that if you have a learning disability, you aren't intelligent. I have dyscalculia, a form of numeric dyslexia. I probably have about a 4th grade math level. But I hold three college degrees and had only A's in grad school. I am very successful professionally. People wouldn't know I had a disability unless they made me try to do a calculation on the fly, and even then I have a cell phone like most people so a calculator, compass, GPS, etc put me at even playing field because I can use that tool to figure out what I need to.

I remember it was hard for me to accept at first, but once I stopped mentally beating myself up about it, I just framed it as everyone having different gifts and abilities and being bad at something, and math just isn't my strong suit or what I was meant to do. So I put my energy and focus into other things and excelled elsewhere. I don't even think about it any more as I so rarely step into a situation where it's obvious. But I guess I'm saying that to some degree, it's only as big a deal as you make it (depending on your situation). I don't let it affect how I see myself or function in the world. I've found ways to cope and rely on my other skills and that has served me well. It's OK if you have a learning disability, focus on the things you can control and strengthen other parts of yourself. We all have gifts and exciting things to bring to the world!

[MORPHEUS_12]

You don't need to openly discuss your learning disability with anyone. You would not walk up to a new person and say "Hi, I am Candace and I have a learning disability." If you allow your challenges to define you then you do a huge disservice to yourself.

[CandaceSims201]

Then don't fucking put you opinions on mytake. If you being fucking to rude. Blocked

[MJtheCoach]

As an immigrant in Canada I was put on special class basically I was a special student I was too dumb and too stupid.


My essay writing would always fail and the teachers will always tell me I’m stupid in a nice way.


In college I got dropped out my second time I went to college I failed English class.


Now I have a e-commerce company that I’m starting plus developing a new social media platform and have my own company where I coach men how to be masculine and I get paid a lot of money to do one single seminar.


The school system is made for obedient workers.
All the people who make fun of grammar and spelling are making 95 maximum $25,000 a year with a shit miserable life.
But they proclaimed they have amazing spelling and grammar look at where they are.
That’s what school does!
My mom did beat me so that my teachers between ages of two to age of 12.


But I’m goanna Spare that story until my next big success.

[MJtheCoach]

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[TheBigGuy9]

I have a learning disability myself, but I’ve come to enjoy it because of how successful I’ve been in life.
The cool thing is that while it may take you a while to learn things, that when you do, you accelerate above and beyond where everyone else is at.


Smile.

[Twalli]

I don't disrespect people like me. That's stupid. I have one. I'm really smart though. I can appear as if I don't. Everyone but close family that knows I have one was told, because they wouldn't know otherwise. Everyone I've told said that they never would have guessed. Obviously it's apparent if you're close to me, but most people aren't and eccentricity is expected in a college setting, especially when all my roommates weren't from the US.

[aglaze]

I have dyslexia, and people in my school are constantly saying I'm dumb just because I take longer to understand things or I can't read or write as fast or I can't spell as well. I (Not kidding someone thought I cheated because I scored higher than them on a test) It really started to do a deal on my mental health and I started to feel like I couldn't do anything right.

[The_Maphio]

Disrespect you is a big word. Sure thing is, my patience is thin, and I wouldn't be the best guy to ask for a lesson on nothing because of that. Especially if you won't be catching on fast.