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I have a crush on a lady at work. Yes, it happens. No obsession, no marriage out the gate, and no pressure for dating. Just wanted to get to know her in person but have cold feet, and fear of creating an awkward moment. How do you tell your crush's coworker that you like your crush and want to be their Valentine?

We work together in a job and the same organization for our school.

She always teases me, touches my shoulder, and bumps into me. I always wrote it off as a friendly girl, but recently she's been asking questions about the girls I see, if they have met my parents, how my family is doing, etc.

I texted her to grab lunch, and she instantly said yes and recommended a place, although the day she had an exam and didn't tell me but called me, texted me, and left a voicemail rescheduling to any time later in the day.

During our dinner, she told me about her family and her ex, and they left on good terms; she asked me A LOT of questions. Had deep conversations too. My only concern, she brought up the guy she's currently seeing. However, she said, "I am not interested in dating him, but we do everything couples do," or that she needs more time after her current relationship to get into another one. I, too, talked about the girls I am seeing.

When I dropped her home, she hugged me, which she's never done before, and then the next day, she texted me about a topic close to me that she was researching. Then she texted me that she needed to tell me something she wanted to pursue but before, she requested a few work materials, which I gave her, but she has yet to ask me what she needed my advice on. Honestly, I never texted her but sent her the screenshots for her marketing material, and that's about it.

I know ESFPs are flirty and outgoing, but is she interested or flirty? She's my coworker, so I want to be sure.