I have a coworker who’s a few years older. He’s so chill and laid back and he is cute but I don’t have a crush on him or anything on just curious because of some of his behavior.
He does know I am dating someone because I always make it clear to everyone lol and I always talk about him.
He’s friendly and his mom also works there and he’ll tell me hey and “welcome to work” and stuff like that lol but he does it to everyone else. Once I was coming into work and I walked in behind a customer and he said hi to the customer then did a double take and said hey to me.
I see him talking to this other girl frequently who also is a work acquaintance of mine and she’s rlly nice. I’m a cashier and sometimes he has to help on the register so he’ll come beside me and once he asked where the receipt paper was and o told him and it ended up being somewhere else and he was like “you lied” and was smiling.
Today I came in and I looked overwhelmed because of the sale snd he looked at me and asked was I ok. He also kept saying random things I guess to make small talk. He kept lingering around my area today too. When I was working on the spinner, he came and started working on it.
Today I went to the back and we were alone and o told him I needed deodorant and he laughed and I said “I’m sorry tmi” and he smiled and was like “you’re good”.
Also today he bought something and he never rlly had before. I tried to talk him into buying something else snd he was like “I’m poor” so we were alone and talking at the register and he said something about the transaction and starts smiling and looking at me again. I am a pretty girl who is around his age but I don’t want to automatically assume things because of that.
I don't know I’m starting to feel a weird vibe is he showing attraction to me? I want to know so I can know how to act towards him from now on lol.
He does know I am dating someone because I always make it clear to everyone lol and I always talk about him.
He’s friendly and his mom also works there and he’ll tell me hey and “welcome to work” and stuff like that lol but he does it to everyone else. Once I was coming into work and I walked in behind a customer and he said hi to the customer then did a double take and said hey to me.
I see him talking to this other girl frequently who also is a work acquaintance of mine and she’s rlly nice. I’m a cashier and sometimes he has to help on the register so he’ll come beside me and once he asked where the receipt paper was and o told him and it ended up being somewhere else and he was like “you lied” and was smiling.
Today I came in and I looked overwhelmed because of the sale snd he looked at me and asked was I ok. He also kept saying random things I guess to make small talk. He kept lingering around my area today too. When I was working on the spinner, he came and started working on it.
Today I went to the back and we were alone and o told him I needed deodorant and he laughed and I said “I’m sorry tmi” and he smiled and was like “you’re good”.
Also today he bought something and he never rlly had before. I tried to talk him into buying something else snd he was like “I’m poor” so we were alone and talking at the register and he said something about the transaction and starts smiling and looking at me again. I am a pretty girl who is around his age but I don’t want to automatically assume things because of that.
I don't know I’m starting to feel a weird vibe is he showing attraction to me? I want to know so I can know how to act towards him from now on lol.
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It’s hard to say. I would say if you’re not really into him. Just leave it be. Unless you just want to see where things go.
If he makes a move on you I suppose you can choose what to do there. But I really can’t read minds as well as people who expect people to read minds irs better to be straightforward.
Why are you 'just curious'? You are BOTH in relationships... and you obviously couldn't care less. Wtf is with girls always pulling this crap... so gross.
What? He’s not in a relationship. Read the question right
Okay, YOU are in a relationship... so still wtf... your boyfriend deserves better.
What? I haven’t even done anything
Did I say you had? But there is no reason to even be entertaining this.
How would you feel if your boyfriend was doing the same thing? You wouldn't be happy.
How am I entertaining it? And my boyfriend tells me about plenty of women at his job who hit on him and he doesn’t do anything about it. I’m barely even flirting with this guy
I’m barely even talking to him
You are entertaining it by posting this! Stop talking like I was born yesterday please?
"I'm barely even talking to him" So, are you saying since your shithead boyfriend throws it in your face what a big stud he is, then why shouldn't you get yours? Just break up with him if you want to play grabass with this dude at work.
So, let's recap the reasons this a bad idea: you have a boyfriend, you work with him, his MOTHER works there too...😂 😂, oh, and YOU HAVE BOYFRIEND.
This is all around stupid idea. Have some class and lose the boyfriend.
Stop.