Search Results: do all girls like

A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc...

That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had that.

Like with me apart from fame + defined six pack I do have every gift a man can have and I’m a nice guy. I can see my girlfriend getting more and more comfortable around me. She no longer compliments my tall height and ultra luxury things my family own or my looks, career as much. Like I am hung because I’m so fat but I’m only a bit longer than average.
She’s getting over all of it. I can see it.

Women want more and more, they want the novelty.

Best to just get happiness from yourself as no girl will make you happy.

Getting a girlfriend has made me realise, it’s only about your relationship with yourself that matters no other girl will complete or fulfil you.

I'm not sure why but I been a magnet for taken women all of my life.

taken women have always opened up and show interest in me the most just to for me to end up heartbroken later on when they announced they were taken all along

I still remember back in high school there was a girl who was taken that always used to check me out. one day while switching classes she and her boyfriend were walking in front of me and she looked back and stared at me while they held hands. is crazy how she even announced she was pregnant with his ass around that time and her preggo belly started to become more noticeable weeks later.

a year or two later the one that almost won the title as my first girlfriend revealed that she was already taken herself just when I was getting ready to meet her. I obviously burned the bridge with her because I found out that she was trying to breadcrumb out of me

in college things were not so different. girls who would walk with their S/Os on their way to class were always the once that checked me out and showed interest in me.

till then I couldnt help but to be paranoid and ask any woman who tried to click with me if she already has an S/O. however I always heard that assuming that a woman you are interested is already taken can come off as beta behavior.

Every god dang time! lol

Just to be clear its ok to have preferences but some dudes (and women) take it wayyy too far, even assuming things about the women getting these things. Like slutshaming them or thinking they're easy for example. I wonder if you press them on it what they really think about women in general? it's probably not pleasant. they all tend to vote a certain way too...

https://medium.com/@karmenkingery/why-socially-conservatives-especially-men-seem-to-dislike-womens-tattoos-63d4a0f4ae6d

Anyways what do you think of this irrational hatred these dudes have of women wanting to get tattoos or piercings on their bodies?

Read some of the dudes responses here to see what i mean: Should I get my nose pierced?

That nowadays men are expected to be perfect. Like have everything.

If this is not true then why does it feel that way? All you hear is girls say he’s 6ft, got money blah blah blah.

My girlfriend is part of this problem. She expected perfection and had a million ways she judged me.

IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO: You and a boy have always been more than friends.. a quiet understanding, late-night talks, little gestures that blur the line. He finally says it outright and proposes something real. You care about him, but you’re not sure, so you ask for time.

That same week he goes out, drinks too much, and dials you. Your phone is already engaged with a call from another guy.. your best friend, nothing romantic, but it’s a long vent-session you don’t want to cut off. (Your guy) calls again. And again (10+ times). You see his name flash, your stomach knots, and you let it ring out because you’re not ready to face his voice right then.

He switches to text: IG, WhatsApp, short messages that get more urgent. You read them, guilt prickling, but you don’t answer. Confused and irritated, you block him everywhere like shutting a door to buy a minute of quiet.

Later the day you felt the guilt is louder than the fear. You unblock just enough to call. It rings, once, twice, and then voicemail. You wait for his call back... nothing comes.

The next day you hover over the unblock button. Part of you wants to explain: “I was on another call, I panicked.” Part of you freezes.. what if he leaves me on read? What if he says he’s done, that he’s moved on? That dread sits heavy, stealing sleep. You replay his silence, wonder if he’s already talking to someone else, feel the shame of your own avoidance.

"5 months have passed" (You were still waiting to fix) & beneath it all, another question: maybe you’re not just scared, maybe you really do need time and space to understand what you want before you try to fix what you broke.