Is there like, a type of guy that single mom’s tend to go for?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always struggled with attracting girls, but I’ve had some recent experiences (one where I know this girl is actually interested) but where single women that have children come off way more interested than women that don’t have kids at all.

I just wonder why that is. Like if I’m not good enough for all these other single women, but now suddenly women with kids are interested? What am I supposed to make of that?

[Abbycado]

Just a guess, but a stable guy. For the child’s sake.

[Asker]

But not for the woman’s? 😅

[Abbycado]

Well, of course, but the child is going to be number one priority.

[Asker]

I just think it’s a bit curious how it takes a woman having a child to then realize, “oh maybe THIS is the kind of man I should be dating”

It’s like as much as you feel like an afterthought as a man, you also realize maybe I really was the best guy all along. But women should see and value that BEFORE having children.

It’s just not ideal.

[Iron_Man]

They want guys that are well off that work full-time that’s settle down men that want relationships

[Asker]

But why not the single girls without kids? That would be more ideal for me, but it seems like they don’t care about stability without something that really holds them to it.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, the young ones when new, but eventually they will want professionals. But they want to make sure you’re going to school preparing for it so either way you’ve gotta get busy if not, no girlfriend.

[Iron_Man]

Basically, they’re interviewing you for potential for the future and they want to have a beautiful life and you take care of everything

[Nikki1989]

Someone who is mentally stable and not immature in any way.

[Asker]

But the single girls don’t want that? You’d think they would too.

[Anonymous]

They would be attracted to a lot more guy because they have such difficult finding dates and then keeping relationships going because they have kids.