Are women chasing novelty?

[Anonymous]

A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc...

That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had that.

Like with me apart from fame + defined six pack I do have every gift a man can have and I’m a nice guy. I can see my girlfriend getting more and more comfortable around me. She no longer compliments my tall height and ultra luxury things my family own or my looks, career as much. Like I am hung because I’m so fat but I’m only a bit longer than average.
She’s getting over all of it. I can see it.

Women want more and more, they want the novelty.

Best to just get happiness from yourself as no girl will make you happy.

Getting a girlfriend has made me realise, it’s only about your relationship with yourself that matters no other girl will complete or fulfil you.

Women chase novelty

I don’t agree

[Summeroflove]

This really depends on the woman plenty of men display these behaviors as well. There are women who are frankly narcissistic and will never be happy (since this question is focusing on women, so people commenting about men understand I’m answering this question)

Most people seek companionship there is another extreme of people who feel angry when someone has any standards whatsoever. Point blank nobody is entitled to anyone…. And people who complain about the opposite sex while having unreasonable expectations when they don’t bring much to the table themselves cannot see past their own narcissism. That goes for men and women.

My best advice is….. Let those women leave. Don’t try to please someone that will only make you miserable and that you could never be enough for. You could grow a foot taller, be the worlds first trillionaire, and everything else. Guess what? They still would find something to complain about. I’ve seen narcissistic people getting their ass wiped while the other partner gets zero out of the relationship. They aren’t happy.

Most people seek genuine connection and companionship. Look, sometimes people get into a relationship with someone and things don’t work out. It may not be anything wrong with you it could be personalities don’t match, you have different standards, different things you want from relationships, different boundaries, and not compatible. Someone who’s respectfully straightforward you have to respect them for not wasting your time. If she’s a bitch….. be glad she’s gone.

Many people do seek someone though to cleanup their lives. People who are empathetic do grow tired of being used. It’s better to have peace being single then being miserable with someone who isn’t in the relationship for you.

If you ever do find a relationship that’s fulfilling. Nurturing. Respectful. Peaceful. That’s building that genuine bond and companionship oh my gosh it’s worth the wait. But people aren’t going to find it in superficial and materialistic relationships and aren’t going to find it with cheap quick hookups and the people who get triggered that. Maybe ask yourself why you’re so upset before commenting crying at me.

I promise not all women are bad. But for sure sometimes the bad ones can come across pretending to be anyone they think you want them to be. But once you can spot disingenuous and deceitful behavior. They can be easier to skim out

[MissSunshine2]

I think that a percentage of both men and women are under the illusion that the grass is always greener on the other side, not realising that the grass is always greener wherever you water it.

However, I do feel that there are certain people like me for instance, who’d just like to meet one good person that they really love and get married, minus the games and looking for greener grass on the other side.

[Nikki1989]

You have so much to offer; yet here you are on GAG posting anonymously.

Obviously you are low on IQ points.

[Little_Bumblebee]

The same goes the other way.
If you date for the superficial reasons, and you just value wealth and hotness, then that novelty will wear off after some time.

What's lasting is things like personality, compatibility, and shared values.

[Asker]

I agree but is so rare for girls to prioritise that or only when they’re old and messed around with every guy are they like I deserve a nice guy

[Little_Bumblebee]

I would day it's the other way around though.. but maybe that's because you only think of the young and super hot ones.
I don't know.

[Anonymous]

If lying to yourself makes you feel better. lol

[LazerBean]

Some do, some don't. Just like with men.

[DryGermanGuy]

Go and cry elsewhere, gaylord.

[Anonymous]

8th account in like 4 days?