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First, No one was rude or inappropriate in private or in public. People were very kind and supportive.

Second, I think I may have inadvertently implied by hastily getting rid of the earlier post bc I was UNCOMFORTABLE , that there is somehow something wrong if someone happens to be COMFORTABLE, wearing this kind of dress. I in NO WAY meant to give that impression. I have my own hauntings to work through but it is entirely personal.

... I was not brought up to appreciate my body- entirely polite way of putting it. The environment was intensely hostile. I don’t believe that was the intention, and until I moved out a few years ago, it was “normal”. People can care and still harm. To an extent, it was useful, bc I wasn’t obsessing and could focus on strengthening other aspects. However, after a point I just quietly hatred myself and detached. I am learning to reconnect.

.. Gag has been really helpful in that regard. Not some journey to feel “hot”- It’s nice to not feel like a monster of course.. This is about not feeling shame, when objectively there’s nothing unethical happening. Not about cleavage or no cleavage, just being a relatively normal person. Too lengthy to get into here. I don’t want to stray off topic. Maybe a My Take Sometime.

Point is, I see NOTHING wrong in appreciating the female or male firm and dressing as if you are not ashamed of your body.

Thirdly , I simply can’t be sure why I am uncomfortable. I don’t think the dress is obscene.. I think It more the internal judgement stemming from the past, that I don’t want to be a slave to. I am developing an appreciation of the female form that I previously lacked. I know I have spoken negatively and I think it’s inappropriate. It sheds a bad message.

—As for the 👗.. I think If I was uneasy I ought not have posted.. Posting THEN pulling bc it’s scandalous 🤭🤭 was just dumb and immature.

I hope I didn’t offend any Women by being a dork.. You guys were really helpful.
TY 🌟🌟