1.) You're boring
No woman wants a man who doesn't have anything going on with his life. Are you adventurous? Do you hit the gym or play some hoops? If you're just sitting your ass at home playing your stupid video games like a kid, expect her to ghost you because she ain't stickin around for some nerd like you.
2.) You have no sense of grooming
You don't care about how you present yourself when you're in public. You just wear whatever you think is clean and you don't practice good hygiene which women don't find it worth committing to.
3.) N.E.E.D.Y.
Negativity, entitlement, egocentric, desperation and yapping. Yup that's a new acronym for you insecure boys. All of these attitudes scream neediness and all women can smell that from you.
4.) You're not putting up enough effort
Did you even ask her out? Call her? Or even text her? Don't complain why she won't commit. She won't wait for your texts as she has her own life as well. Your shyness and sensitivity in actions aren't her problem.
5.) Your plans are vague
When you ask her out, by that time she's had plans with her friends. Because you didn't bother making plans. She doesn't need to prioritize you because she already knew her friends before you and to her you're just like a stranger getting to know her.
6.) You're all talk
You don't ask her out, you just talked to her and forget to actually date her. You just lead her on so why would she stay?
7.) You lack chivalry
Just to let you know she was entering a room, you didn't bother opening it for her? And when you do, you expect something in return? Don't assume that everyone owes you shit cuz no one is obliged to cater to what you want. The world was here before you and will be here after you.
Now you know the reasons why she won't commit to you. And if you ever do these things, you got a problem dude. Making someone commit ain't easy but I'ma show you how to make her do so.
What to do to make her commit?
1.) Make yourself a good impression
First impression comes last, and like it or not people are gonna judge you based on who you we're not who you are. And even if you've changed, I doubt that the woman you're chasing is gonna commit to you once she sees you've made a bad impression, especially if that woman is valuable.
2.) Give a little more effort
Men are made to be pursuers, chasers and women has the advantage to select the man who's all G'd up. This means you gotta ante up and call her, ask her the f*** out and when she isn't available, another time.
3.) Be confident
The woman playing hard to get can either range herself from a demure daughter of a pastor type of hard to get to the dismissive bitchy abrasive type. Women often do this to see if you're likely to crack up under the pressure and get intimidated by them. This means you gotta show some confidence but at the same time, make sure you're still true to yourself as you don't wanna come on too strong for her taste and look like a poser.
4.) Be a man of your words
When you say you're gonna call her, ACTUALLY CALL HER. Be a man of your words because she's not obliged to wait for your initiation. You're the person attracted to her so you must take action.
5.) Be charismatic
Show off your skills and intelligence without being a jerk to the point she admires this. It's always important to keep her entertained if you want her to stay interested in you. This will make her want to stay with you.
6.) Be chivalrous
Like I said earlier, don't expect anything in return and just be it. Show her the respect she deserves and never make her pay on the first date. Women won't stick around men who acts needy and entitled.
7.) Body language
Don't slouch, straighten your body. And keep your chin straight whether walking, standing and sitting. And remember to practice good grooming if you want her to commit. She's not gonna stick around a man who doesn't respect himself.
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