Search Results: getting over an ex

What effort should I expect from an ex who said he wants to start over but go slow?

My ex and I split up in April. We both had personal issues going on, mine being low self esteem and felt I was being taken for granted. He broke trust by lying to me and me catching him out (it wasn't cheating) so I...

RedGamer

Xper 4 Age: 37

I really like him but it’s getting really hard. Should I leave?

I’ve liked this guy for years, he’s the only one I’ve genuinely liked. Over the years I know he’s sort of kept an eye on me but has always had a girlfriend. He broke up with her sometime ago. He started casually seeing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my ex girlfriend open up to me if she has a boyfriend?

I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for a little over 6 months. In the first few months we still saw each other and hung out, but this faded away because we needed to let each other go. I went 'no contact'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I make the right decision?

i was almost break up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago because he told me he attracted to this girl, im okay with him attracted to someone else however, this is the girl that keep hitting on him, all this time i tried to be...

Alyasofia

Xper 3 Age: 25

My ex broke up with me, but now may want to get back together. Do I tell him if I was with someone when we were split?

My ex broke up with me after two years. I was very much still in love with him and was absolutely devastated for two months or so but after about five months and with very minimal contact with one another I started to see...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you respond to a “hey” text from ex boyfriend that ghosted you?

It’s been week since I received a message from him that said “hey”. Hey just didn’t seem like enough. It felt like nothing-especially after everything that happened. I haven’t responded for an entire week. My initial fear...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he cheating or what?

My boyfriend n I have been together 6 months. When we were first together it was good. Then he would get upset if I missed his call. Then lately I have been catching him lying about his ex or seeing me. He says he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

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"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Interview with the ''other woman'' - some light on being a married man's mistress

This myTake was more or less ready for the beginning of this week, but I've had some issues taking precedence so I had to postpone it. This article starts from the long talk I had with an acquaintance - who'll be...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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My ex and I are sleeping together daily as friends, no sex?

After 2 months of not even talking we became “friends” but he’s calling me daily or texting all day and coming over late at night for a movie and sleep over, out of 10 days we sleep 8 together and spend lots of hours...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Getting over someone by getting under someone else - why rebounds can be a good thing

As I'm getting out my post vaccine fever, I found myself re-thinking about some discussions and talks I've had over the years, I started thinking about rebound relationships . Rebound relationships get a bad rep, but...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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Am I insane for wanting to try things again with a girl I briefly dated?

For context, it's important to note one thing right off the bat: I ended a long-term relationship two months ago. It had been a very long time coming, and I began the process of moving on prior to the breakup. I wound up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Travel

How did you know it was time for a house move to a new location?

I have been getting waves of disatisfaction about where I am living for some time. I originally moved here with an ex partner in 2007 and after we broke up in 2009 I ended up staying here to try and make it work for me....

Busybee1111

Xper 4 Age: 45

Flirting

Should you try and get with a girl that's not over her ex?

Hi there, Im interested in this girl, but I know her boyfriend of 2+ years dumped her around a month ago. From what I've heard from her friends and her, she's 100% not over it. I've seem her swiping on tinder like...

Bran_

Xper 4 Age: 29

Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters

Disclaimer: I want to be clear that everyone is free to make choices in their lives. I'm not gonna tell anyone what to do, I'm just sharing my perspective on a subject I'm very passionate about. And since I'm a...

TruthBringer

Yoda Age: 28

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Guy's Behavior

How do guys feel when getting back together after breakup? If you feel you can't see a future with someone, can that feeling change?

last month, my boyfriend broke up with me over the phone. I couldnt accept it and asked him to rethink but he was very adamant about the breakup. he thinks im too selfish and can't see a future with me. we talked and met...

jjjuvely

Xper 3 Age: 35

Ex texted me I love you after she broke up with me?

So my ex broke up with me recently after constantly questioning her.. I lost my trust for her after she cheated on me and I caught her. Most recently was with a man in jail. She claims it’s not really cheating because...

Anonymous

(25-29)