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So I have been single for my entire life. Since I have been in my late teens, I have been concerned about my single status. Maybe I have a reason to be or maybe I have too high of an opinion of myself. But I don’t get how a relationship has not presented itself for 25 years. And the few times guys have shown “interest” (can’t tell if it’s platonic or romantic), it isn’t by a guy I’d usually pursue. And I know women get approached by guys they actually fancy.

I was bitching with my mother the other day at breakfast. And I feel she may have said this out of being annoyed. But she said that “you are alone because you choose to be”. And that kind of hit me hard. I don’t think it’s true. And one day I was saying that when my brothers (now teen boys) get a girlfriend, they will be on their own and I will still be hanging out with my remaining family. She said “if you stay single for that long, that’s your choice”.

I think she lacks empathy and doesn’t understand because she met my dad at 18 and they were married for 10 years. I feel like I am one of those women that don’t get noticed by the opposite sex regardless of the effort I put into my appearance.

Does anyone see where I’m coming from?

I am almost 25 and have no dating experience. I hear feedback either along the lines of being too picky or just having bad luck. Everyone says love finds you, so why hasn’t it found me? Don’t say that I’m still young because there are women who marry their high school sweetheart and stay together indefinitely.

I was chunky in my teens and have lost a good amount of weight, almost 80 lbs. I have maintained it for a year and do my best to look good. Yet, I’m never approached by guys. I don’t think I’m ugly and have been complimented throughout my life a few times. I feel like I’m doing wrong or men don’t find me attractive. Must I say, dating apps do not work for me.

I know a lot of men use it for sex but I hear a lot of relationships that have formed from them too. I meet women who dumb their ex boyfriends and these guys were wrapped around their fingers. I wish I had the power and control to have a man desire me that way.

When I do attract guys (rare rare occasions), it’s ugly guys. I know I’m no model or beauty queen but are decent looking men repulsed by me too? Oh, I don’t have any friends by the way.