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Being a virgin at 20

Clarke498
This site is filled with questions about sex, dick sizes, people asking others to rate them, and all kinds of other stuff. Virginity is of course a subject that's also brought up here, but not that often so i thought for some dumb ass reason i'd do it. Mostly because it's 2 at night, and for some dumb ass reason i don't want to sleep even though i know i'm going to wake up early tomor- later today.
Being a virgin at 20

Teen Years: Since i'm a guy, i grow up around other dudes, and though it's rarely said out loud, there's a always-running race about being the first one to have sex with a girl. After that, the race turns into keeping the numbers going up and up. Then it turns into a race of having done the weirdest stuff with a girl, or more girls. It's a constant battle, and it's exhausting. Not talking from experience because i wouldn't know, but the pressure around just talking to a girl now is exhausting. Can't even be talking to them without the question of "Is he trying to fuck me?" getting raised. Which has made parties pretty impossible for me to enjoy.... Anyways, while every kept collecting their badges and raising their numbers, i never did. At first i thought about losing my virginity just as the other guys, something i had to do quickly, so it's done for. Every party i went to without having "completed" this task before going home became a failure of a night... -

Being a virgin at 20

Now: It's not that i don't care anymore. I've not turned asexual or anything, on the contrary. I've just stopped caring. Do i "fear" i'm going to surpass Steve Carrell as being the new 40 year old virgin? Sure... But still, don't let that make me dictate if a party is good or if my dating life is ok. I'm just gonna let nothing be nothing. Not gonna stress about it anymore.

The main reason why i wrote this is because of the community people is making around this, and my two friends point of view on this. I have one guy that has lost it a long time ago, and keeps getting new girls at every party he goes to. Then i have the second friend that, like me, is still a virgin, but he's still in the place i was before, and i see it eating him up. He's getting broken down from being a virgin for so long. The first friend is even fucking a bit with him for being a virgin, while i try to make him back of and make the second friend not be so down on it. That's the main reason for writing this. Stop making relationships and talking with girls like competitions and a girl as a gateway to a badge, to lose a status. It's really toxic and has fucked up myself and people like my friend. I have gotten out of it, but he hasn't and a LOT of others hasn't.

Oh well... Time to actually sleep... Good night folks'.

Being a virgin at 20
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