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I saw this video and it was about in a rural village how people have expectations of you but in a city you can be anonymous and do whatever you like as long as you're not comitting crimes or being too annoying like waking your neighbors at night.

Do you think this is why a lot of people struggle with socialising and connection today? Because they're not willing to integrate themselves into a situation where other people have a say on what they think is right and wrong for them to do.

I was born in the city but lived in the countryside for 3 years. It was definitely an interesting experience. I think most of the people were nice but it was also difficult because they knew each other since birth and I was a new person and also I don't know I think I wasn't really ready for the ammount of social work it would take to fully integrate myself there.

I actually felt happy and like I was back home when I came back to Zürich. Even though I met new people and made new friends there's just a familiarity with how things are done here and I don't feel like I'm out of place or so.

I am putting more and more focus on socializing and I think it's going well but I still found it interesting this concept because I definitely feel like city people put a lot of importance on freedom and not being tied down and that comes into conflict with building a tight community.

I think I will keep changing my priorities over time but I also enjoy the city. There's a lot of nice things about it. We'll see how it goes :)

To sum this up. I love that woman is not afraid to eat and keep her self fed and healthy. Plus curves on a woman make her look fertile. And attractive. Plus the mindset can be much more relaxed and free instead of overwhelmed by the unrealistic expectations of media or super restricting diets

I don't know what but ever since I been raised by a mom that is constantly obsessed with being thin as a fucking twig and all the struggle and next to nothing eating she goes through just trying to drop 5 lbs, I just don't see a need in it.
That's why I like to eat whenever I feel like and whatever I feel like in combination with lifting and excersize. That's part of the reason I'd rather my girlfriend be just comfortable with what she eats and wants to eat. I wouldn't want her trying ridiculously hard and pushing her self to lose pounds. I get how hard and tiring that is. Plus, honestly, I really like curves on a woman. Yes, even cellulite. Simply because it shows me that woman eats well and keeps her body from looking like a walking carcass. With all this said of course, you can guess I'm a lazy motherfucka that hardly works out a lot, but I do like what I like. A woman like this id help her do anything any meal she wants to make together I'm down for it, if she wants help changing her diet I'm up for it too but I sure as hell wouldn't want her to be bone thin and weak

I might get married but it I do think it’s stupid. It’s more an expectation in my culture.
It’s a piece of paper. It’s a celebration for a woman as she gets financial incentives, security and favour particularly in breakdown of relationship.

I don’t think men get any security or any perks to getting married, can you name any? I view marriage as a liability like a car.

Arranged marriages used to work and be so successful yet modern love marriage crumble like anything.