Search Results: how to get a second date

Why would he lead me on?

I met a guy last month on a dating app. We went out on a date and it was a bit awkward but it went good. We then went on a second date together and I really liked him a lot. We had a lot of similarities and interests. I...

katemeeko

Xper 2 Age: 25

Dating

Anyone else lonely in their mid 30s?

I feel like everyone else moved on and I'm just spinning my wheels. Same situation for years. The same two friends, can't get anybody else to like me. I go on dates and none of the girls I go out with want a second date....

red324

Guru Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

My coworker ex ghosted me, then started treating me like shit?

I (23F) was in a short relationship with my coworker 33M. We dated for several months after he flirted with me for about a year, partially while he had a girlfriend and I finally caved and agreed to go out with him after...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Girls, how long does it take you to notice a guy’s red flags if you didn’t notice them on the first date?

so here is what led to me asking the question I’m not asking for advice on this specific scenario but more as to if you were in her position or have been in that position what happened with you and your story? My friend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did I kill my chances for a second date?

On my date today, I was having a great conversation with a girl that I finally got a chance to reconnect with. At one point, I told her that she’s really cute, which she nervously complimented back saying I was nice. I...

SuperMike100

Xper 5 Age: 25

Dating

Should I give him a second chance?

I really liked a guy, we had a lot in common and got along really well. We went on a first date and spoke for hours. Not long after the date, he asked if we should delete tinder. I said to him it felt a bit too soon since...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Boyfriend agreed to going on a holiday with his friends, but refusing to go on a holiday with his girlfriend?

Hey so basically my boyfriend is being recruited into the military in March. Before Christmas and even after Christmas, I kept asking him to go on a holiday with me before he left for 4 months to train. He refused, as his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Boyfriend will go on holiday with his friends, but not me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy ghost me instead of not telling me he doesn't want to see me again?

I went on a first date with a guy and it went great. He said he felt chemistry with me and that I was very beautiful. He asked me on a second date shortly after and we ended up having another great date. After the second...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I take my female friend with me to Hawaii?

Here's the deal. There's this one lady that I did start off dating a few years ago. We only dated for less than 2 months, but have remained friends since then, even to today. I did tell her recently that I now have reason...

tstarr17

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

Girls, how much longer do I give it before we have a serious talk about things?

so I've been talking/ seeing this girl for a little bit now. we met online (her profile is now deleted) and we have hung out 5 times and six is a strong possibility. things go well, she texts me first, initiates hanging...

zes0511

Xper 3 Age: 36

Dating

What should I do?

Guys, I’ve been through a really long path love wise. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15.. he passed away in a car accident when I turned 17. I was devastated.. years later I got in a relationship with another guy. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, Sex early on and how it sets the tone?

I'm really a bit of an idiot and naive when it comes to sex and dating. I'm 23 and haven't had much sex at all and have never been in a relationship. I had sex with a guy on the second date and just had sex with him...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Relationships

Do you have someone in your past who was "the one who got away"?

When I was in my early 20's, I dated two women - in succession - who broke up with me to return to a previous relationship. Of course, it was my fault for selecting women who either weren't ready or weren't capable of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Is it normal for women to make meeting up so complicated?

I was going to meetup with this girl as a second date I guess and she had a job interview and she was going to spend the night, then I was going going to take her to the interview the next ha f and we were going to hang...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Dating

Guys, I regret having sex on second date. Does it always lead to disasters/situationships? Should I go for a few dates with no sex?

I (23f) went on a date with a guy (34m) and made it clear I'm looking for something long term on the first date. He said it takes him around two months to know if he wants something serious. We were intimate on the second...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Dating

Girls, should I just ask her how she felt about the end of our date?

so i went out with this girl last night and it was our second date. it lasted for about two hours about the same as our first. conversation was good lots of laughing etc... after we finished eating we walked around a bit...

zes0511

Xper 3 Age: 36

Dating

Confused about a guy?

I need advice: I went out with this guy in October ( we live at the same apartment) and we really hit it off it was a good date and we had a second one. Then one day we had plans and he cancelled plans but I never heard...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Confused about this guy?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Was he even interested in me after the first date?

So I went out with a guy back in October last year (Friday), I remember i met him online and he had booked a restaurant date, after the meal, and then a bar for coffee. As it was almost 11 in the night, we went for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)