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Me and this guy let’s call him josh have been doing friends with benefits. In the car he told me “ I hope you know we are doing this just as a friend thing, nothing more” I didn’t really care because I don’t like him like that. Anyways me and his friend was texting Because his friend let’s call him Kevin contacted me and I asked josh if he wants to hang out to do stuff josh said “ na we can’t I don't know it’s all on you” I asked him what does he mean by that “ you can met up with Kevin cause you want too” I was confused by this I told him “ we are just friends we aren’t going to do anything “ he said “sureee it’s not what I saw ur prob gonna do it with other guys” etc. i have a guy friend named David he’s one of my great guy friends I posted him on my story and mentioned his username, than out of nowhere josh stared following him, David has no clue who josh is and josh doesn’t know who he is he just followed him because I posted him. I was utterly lost and confused I hung out with josh today I told him “ your friend Kevin keeps texting me” josh said “ yeah ur gonna hang out with him and do something righttt?” I Told him no and that I just want to hang out as friends yet again he said “yeah sureeee” like in a sarcastic tone? Anyone knows why he is acting like this

So, I started dating this guy a few months ago and he’s amazing. The only thing I don’t like about him is his relationship with his youngest sister. For reference, he’s 18 and she’s 15. I really liked his sisters at first and then his youngest sister started acting a little weird. Every other time we hang out at his house and we’re in his room, she barges in and starts talking to him and doesn’t acknowledge me unless I speak. We get along fine but I think she’s just a little shy. Recently, his youngest sister has been all over my boyfriend. I’m not talking about hugs, she’s constantly touching him, whining to him about things, I’ve seen them wrestle a few times, every time they stand/sit near each other she constantly touches him. Whether her foot is on him somewhere or she’s holding his arm or shirt or touching his abdomen. She also talks to him about inappropriate things, and when they sit next to each other she props her legs up on him. And on one occasion I saw him smack her butt. And twice he’s told me that he fell asleep in his sister’s bed (both of his sisters share a bed). And she’s made weird inappropriate jokes to him before. Once, she was on all fours looking out his bedroom window and she said “help *his name* I’m stuck”, with a weird tone, when she clearly wasn’t and got up after a few seconds of him not responding to her. I wish I didn’t feel so weird about their relationship because it feels odd to feel that way. But I can’t help how I’m feeling. I’ve tried to ignore it but I just get a really weird vibe and it makes me super uncomfortable. Also she reads smut so I know her mind isn’t pure lol. Before someone questions that.

*Also, for reference, all I have is an older sister. So I don’t know if that behavior is odd or not and I’m trying to figure it out*

So what do you guys think? Is it weird or am I just being insecure? I want to talk to him about it I just don’t want to put him in an uncomfortable position if this situation isn’t actually weird.

For instance: my first name is Joanne, but I really do not like it being used like this, (most of the time) for many reasons. Mainly due to my mum/parents, and it being a trigger and a trauma response. Hence why I prefer Jo.

I've heard this from many people before.

Does it evoke a sense of dread for you? Or do you feel calm/nothing?

What do you feel, when your name is said?

Does it depend on tone of voice and/or who's saying it and why?

What feelings, if any, come up, when you hear it?

Why do you like/not like hearing it/in that way?

Have you done anything to try and change how you feel about it etc?

Have you changed your name? Do you prefer to use a nickname? If so, why?

Anything else you want to add, please do xx