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A system like Carfax but for men so that women can look up his history and make educated choices in whether they want to be involved in any capacity or not with a particular male. It seems like a no brainer and easy way to avoid problematic men. Men with nothing to hide will benefit and evil men get filtered out of society.

How do you determine if someone is young enough to be your child? Is it when you start having kids? Maybe when you get married? When you start having sex? When you reach adulthood? Or when you hit puberty? As someone who doesn't have any kids yet; the idea of someone young enough to be my child is an interesting conundrum. The two most logical options being when I actually start having kids and when I was physically capable of being a father. But the gap between these two is immense (12-40 for me and 0-28 for my imaginary kid). Adulthood seems like a reasonable solution until you think about the fact that I didn't have sex in my early adult years; which is becoming more common in society. Marriage has similar issues with plenty of people having kids but never getting married; or getting married and never having kids. So what do you think? At what point in your life do you think people born afterwards should be considered young enough to be your child?

Been dating a female for about 6 months… We went on 1 date & spent quality time with each other twice… I was approached by this female saying she liked me and wanted me for years once she found out i was no longer in a relationship… We texted everyday… The chemistry, charisma, & sexual tension was definitely there… She told me she was single when i asked about her ex fiancé who she was engaged to… she said for a year & 43 days which I’m assuming it was due to him being incarcerated… he is the father of 2 of her kids… She said they still had love for one another but they decided they were better off as best friends… when she got overwhelmed & overstimulated with personal issues she would push me away & shut me out for days at a time… Her distancing herself started to bother me so i communicated it to her which she said if we communicated things would work out between us so that’s what i did… she became angry at me… she said how she eventually wanted to be my girlfriend and had future plans with me in them… she said she could see herself falling in love with me because im a good person but then we had a disagreement because the distancing became more common than ever… so she said i was suffocating her because i didn’t believe anything she told me so we friend zoned one another… Then she kept texting me i told her to stop texting me… she texted me one day saying she missed me… So we were back in good graces… Then i planned something special for her because i knew she was going through some personal issues and i had Christmas gifts for her… So on Saturday we had sex after she seen her romantic gesture and gifts but that same day she said her baby father was coming home soon… she texted me Sunday thanking me for the best few hours she had in a long time & she kept admiring her flowers while smiling so hard… Then after that things got weird she only texts me in the mornings now… my assumption is he’s home…