Girls, Why do I have such a hard time trying to find a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Hey all Male, 20 years old here I wanted to ask for some opinions about my difficulties in finding a proper relationship. I'm well aware that you should find the "right one" but key problem is that women around my age don't seem interested in me whatsoever. In fact; I conducted an experiment with a friend and some tinder profiles. We created mine, which was mostly showcasing my work life and shared a few details of what i do in my spare time. While my friend (same age and gender) created a page that was just full of male sex appeal. Whaddya know, he's still getting attention while I got nothing.

My thought process is before settling on one person, i need to see who is out there and try and find someone who can click with me so to speak. However, I can never interact with women my age, either (from my way of thinking at least) because they just aren't interested, because i think differently than most of my generation etc...

Interestingly enough however I can easily start and maintain a conversation with women who are 30+ years old, and I think the main reason is just because I've been working my rear end off since i was 10, both physically and mentally aging me. When I say "working" i mean i either worked freelance or contracted whenever the opportunity presented itself, I only got payroll work once i turned 16, and even then it took a toll on my mind and body. Even now, im working/schooling 6 days a week. Here's where I get confused, I'm a dependable and pretty independent guy who's lived without his parents for 3 years, about to graduate college to go into the aviation industry as a mechanic, semi-social, and pretty relaxed... Yet in the 3 or so years I've lived on my own I haven't seen a single ounce of interest from a single woman my age. The only ones I've managed to talk to OUTSIDE work or school are significantly older, which isn't a bad thing, but my point still stands, am I just unwanted by women my age? What do you think is the cause of my difficulties?

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For additional context I am not using dating apps as a primary source to meet people. I am frequently going out whenever I get a chance to. And just nobody pays any interest.

[Anonymous]

As people say some girls are only marriage material like that you are a husband material. You are way ahead of your time. While the girl around you are now less mature, looking for fun etc, being childish etc. So none actually are on the same level as you. You are at higher level in maturity and understanding about life etc. Take it as good compliment and wait for your time.

After some time when girls of your age will start getting old they would realise that what they were looking for were all just temporary fun.

You still can get your match. Don't feel sad about quantity that how many girls are getting attracted to you or to your friends but you better focus on quality. That what kind of girls they are getting and what kind of girls are getting attracted towards you.

Go for mature, educated well raised girl who are also wife material, they can suit you well. And if not, then don't get sad but wait for the right one. Don't spoil yourself in desperation. You are one of those rare gem.

Till then keep focused on making yourself more better more better and more stable. So when you meet the right one, there could be no reason stopping you for putting rings on her finger.

[Nikki1989]

Do you know what you're really looking for in a partner and a relationship? Vague ideas can lead to mismatched connections.

[Abbycado]

“I can never interact with women my age”

Well, there is a problem.