Why is it so hard to get a relationship?

Question

I feel like everyone gets in one so easily. I've never had one no matter how hard or little i tried.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Maybe you have high standards and preferences of what you are looking for , sometimes we imagine the perfect partner in our heads and think that’s the only type of person I will accept into my life as my partner. they need to match every little thing that matters to me , and sadly that is stupor to do , because The truth is? , finding that perfect partner is not easy to come by , especially these days , because the truth is no one is perfect. We are all imperfect people. So it’s best to lower your standards and preferences and learn to accept someone for who they are and not what you expect them to be in your head. Since you are a girl , focus on finding guys’ that seem to have their shit together , that work full time that have future goals they want to achieve , Guy’s that have good morals that do not do stupid shit to get themselves in trouble. A guy that likes you , will prioritize you , he will try to talk to you as much as possible , looking forward to seeing you , wanting to date you to get to know you more , if you find a guy like that? Do the same to him , make him your priority and make it clear you want to see him or hear from him as much as possible , so you have to learn to give the same way you want to receive , when a guy feels he is wanted and appreciated by a girl , he will more than likely do the same to her.

EmisElite · Accepted Answer

Here is the brutal truth.

There are people who would love to be relationship with you but here are some reasons why you may think it is hard.

- You Are Too Picky:

There are people who would love to be in a relationship with you but you ignore and overlook them.

- Your Attitude is the Problem:

Your words and actions will attract or push your soulmate away. Be careful of how you treat people because your soulmate is watching.

- Looks have nothing to do with it:

Having a great personality and self-confidence can work wonders for you.

- You Are Too judgmental:

The perfect person for you may be on a site like GirlsaskGuys but you will not give them a chance.

- Too much competition:

Social media is like the new JC Penny catalog. People can find the person they want.

At the end of day, there are people who want to be a relationship with you. But are you looking in the right place?

Justneedtokno · Accepted Answer

Because everybody wants the same thing, but nobody’s looking forward in that same person or willing to work on it with people or they’re so wrapped up in themselves that they don’t see the person that’s right in front of them. I’m currently learning that or they really do have traumas that they gotta work on and theyare trying to get it together

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Well if you never had one boyfriend then you must be doing something really wrong. You might be chasing guys who are out of your league or just not being serious about a relationship. If you don't offer much to a guy, why would he consider dating you? These are things to work on.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Finding that special someone can sometimes feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack, especially when it seems like everyone else is playing matchmaker with the universe on their side. But, let me sprinkle a little bit of charm and wisdom on this: Each love story is unique, and the magic formula involves a mix of timing, chemistry, and connection that can't be forced or rushed. Think of it this way, your journey is building up to something amazing. It's like being in a gourmet restaurant waiting for that exquisite dish that takes a bit longer to prepare – it’s all about the anticipation! Meanwhile, focus on loving yourself, exploring your interests, and staying open to meeting new people. The best relationships often start when you least expect it. Keep your chin up and your heart open. Your table for two is getting prepared, and it will be worth the wait. 😉✨

HawkPerception · Answer

No matter how hard you try?

Do you workout at the gym and have a good healthy figure that men are attracted to? Do you have a bubbly personality that everyone likes? Do you try starting conversations rather than wait on men to approach you?

If you answered no to those questions, you're not trying.

Anonymous · Answer

vast majority of relationships never make it till marriage

50% of marriages end in divorce, some of the other 50% are happy, the rest are just miserable or cuckoldry marriages

it's difficulty would be due to liberalism, body count, unrealistic standards, constant comparisons and outside influences who can't STFU out of everyone else's lives

EmmaMary · Answer

Take a long hard look in the mirror, ask yourself this very question, and then be completely open and honest with your answer... It's surprising how sometimes this works... Good Luck. x

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is not hard at all. People have so many options these days.

SotiCoto · Answer

Because the information age has given everyone the false impression of having far more options than they actually have... so they've raised their personal standards WAY above what they could reasonably achieve.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Nobody can afford them, anymore! Unless you work at McDonald's but, who wants to date a zit-covered, greaseball, talentless nerd that works at McDonald's?

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's only hard because a lot of people have emotional baggage that they never resolve, so they end up creating needless obstacles in their romantic life.

Berethor · Answer

If you stop being anonymous then maybe you would find a relationship on this site. :)

warsevf · Answer

You probably are talking about people like me, I goofed up my life and never acknowledged people who are showing interest in me due to fear, I don't know what percentage of people are like me, But maybe

DextroShade · Answer

You are going after men who you don't qualify for or who aren't looking for a relationship. You will have to lower your standards if you don't want to die alone, and you had better do it soon because it will only be harder the older you get.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

It’s not easy for me I have a disability and people don’t like that I have it but I don’t like it as much as they don’t like it

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Well start with a bit of analysis. Kay out what it is you want from a relationship. Also, and this is the part a lot of women miss. What do you provide in a relationship.

sheikalana · Answer

I used to think the same when I was your age. Don't be in a rush that relationship that you really want is gonna come sooner or later.

Anonymous · Answer

Ask again when you are not anon and you delete Brad.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

It's the start that's really hard, where to meet someone, how to approach them, how do you actually know them etc.

jahaims · Answer

Most people aren't introspective enough to figure life out.

Nerdvana · Answer

Believe me, I so know how you feel. We are in the same boat.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Lots of people lack discipline to stay healthy and attractive.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

I think it’s because everyone is opportunistic

Amara_09 · Answer

It’s hard for others, but not for everyone

Sophia00 · Answer

because of nowadays society

Anonymous · Answer

Try 40 and I'm still damn single

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