Why is it so hard to get in a relationship these days?

[Anonymous]

How long do people usually talk for until they date?

[HighValue]

I think it depends on if their conversations actually include topics that are important to them when looking for an SO, or if they just talk about random stuff. If someone wants an actual relationship they should discuss things that matter to them in a relationship and in a potential SO.

I'd actually prefer to just send a questionnaire and she could send me one too. Then it would be much quicker to figure out how compatible someone is.

[Phoenix-gb]

Combination of instant gratification society (hookup culture etc) and the increasingly unreachable standards on both sides meaning when they do meet someone who wants a relationship, one side has something that makes them not good enough for the other.

[Somegirl678]

it is hard a lot of people dont date until their like mid twenties

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you really asking about "talking" or are you asking about the "talking and casual sex?"

[ZSean]

I think covid and the internet has made socializing a lot more awkward.

I know after I got out of a 3 year relationship it has been pretty hard to date. Most people just want hook ups which is not really my go to.

[Asker]

If he mentions about his long term relationship ex a lot while going out with me does it mean he’s not interested?

[ZSean]

Depends how recently they broke up. Though it is kind of weird to talk about it on dates but it might be because it was someone he only really did stuff with so its really all his stories

[LogicBomber]

Simple.
Women have destroyed the male female dynamic with the endless false victim bullshit, false accusations, entitlement, childish games and shit tests, insane expectations, and absolute absence of dignity and value.

Men are realizing that they do not need a female to get sex and women do not bring any additional value to their lives. Marriage only benefits women and the negatives of having a relationship out-weight the good.

[Yourfriend2021]

Lots of people are just looking for friends with benefits. Get to know someone and spend time to get to know them.

[Dchrls78104]

Relationships require work, time, patience, loyalty, honesty, commitment, and understanding---all unpopular these days.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Dating to me, seems forced and unnatural. I say don’t try and let it happen

[Waldoe]

Lockdown sucks... I will date you tomorrow night.. 7PM

[poof_22]

What do you mean by that?

[Asker]

Feel like it’s always hook up at uni

[poof_22]

yeah I guess most want to mess around while in college and uni. They start taking things more seriously near their thirties I guess.

[scott04sa22]

It’s all about games now.

[Nazgol]

Laziness, narcisim & instant gratification

[Adogdog]

It is really hard LOL

[Anonymous]

Because that's what the elites want

[DaSirDom]

Trust and honestly Is hard to find

[bigrigtrucker420]

dont talk just fuck