Things men HATE that women do

[Anonymous]

Obviously all men and women are different so if you have a different opinion as a man that’s okay as well as not all women possess these traits. But it’s not all about looks ladies there are many traits that turn guys off and cause them to loose interest.

Constantly on social media and getting validation to feed your ego

Men who aren’t just simps absolutely HATE this. I am not saying social media is bad but if that’s literally your entire life… Then probably the kind of men who will be attracted to you are the SIMPS who spend the majority of their time on there

Having no hobbies or internets

Most men want a woman whose interesting and isn’t as dry as a popcorn fart. Men who have hobbies tend to be drawn to women who share common interests. Find what you enjoy doing and you’ll probably attract and even find men who enjoy the same things. If you just have no life you’ll probably attract the men who don’t really have one either.

Constantly needing affirmation.

Offering encouragement to one another is okay but putting your entire self worth in the opinion of your man is unattractive.

Bad communication

Ugh…. The type of women who expect men to be able to read their minds. Play games where they say one thing but mean another. Will not speak up but just all the sudden blow up….. Men wanting a serious relationship don’t want to play games. Say what you want and what you really want. Either you’ll talk things through or decide you’re not compatible. If something is bothering you say so…. If you need space say so…. If you need someone to be with you say so. Unless the only men you want sticking around are also immature and emotionally undeveloped individuals as well.

Entitlement

This is one of the worst traits a woman can have… A sense of entitlement most men can only imagine the misery of being married to someone who feels entitled to your money, time, energy, space, and everything else. Especially early on into a relationship. It’s okay to know your wants/needs to express them. To not waste your time or his if you’re not compatible. But just break it off nobody likes someone whose demanding. NOBODY…

Ungrateful

What's worse then a entitled woman?! one whose both entitled and ungrateful. He didn’t pay for your date because he had to he did it to be nice. If you’re ungrateful for what someone did for you then anyone with self respect is not going to tolerate that.

One sided

What’s worse the entitled and ungrateful? Someone whose both of those things and one sided. A relationship should be a two way street. One person shouldn’t be initiating, paying for, planning, and doing everything. Eventually someone will see that the other person isn’t putting the same effort in therefore must not be that interested. So they will find someone who will. Nobody wants to be in a one sided relationship that’s absolutely miserable and if it starts out that way it will end that way. It also goes for things such as emotional support expecting to be given it but never give any.

Not allowing him to be himself

If you’re not compatible personalities break it off. You’re going to see each other go through emotions. Such as crying. Angry. Stress among other emotions. Being vulnerable is more then juar emotions it’s also being able to let your guard down. To be yourself without pretending to be someone you’re not. To be there for one another and love each other through their quicks and flaws. As well as support one another through hard times. I get some personalities aren’t meant to be together. That’s fine don’t waste each other’s time. But making someone hide who they really are will only cause problems when people fall in love with a imagine not who someone really is it goes both ways.

Putting all your value into looks and appearances

There is nothing wrong with looking good but most people also understand that as people age looks change. If all someone has going for them is their physical appearance someone looking for someone more then a sex partner is going the other direction. If you’re too insecure about every little thing. If your personality sucks. If you don’t contribute anything besides looking good to a relationship. A lot of men will leave.

Testing a man…

A man of value and self respect when you start pushing his boundaries. When you start to violate his values. He will see through that and you’ll be shown the door. These men have a lot of options and will find someone who both loves and respects him. He wants someone he can love and respect as well.

Talking down to him

Being brutally honest is one thing. But being negative. Shutting him down. Insulting who he is or his passions. That will kill all attraction fast.

[DishLady]

This is a little unusual to me as a post...

• Looking just on G@G guys (esp younger guys) are equally obsessed with social media. Those of us who aren't are GenX and older.
• Most women I know always have a bunch of projects they're working on in addition to work and family obligations. Where are you meeting these people who have nothing to do? Send them MY way and I'll give them a pile of projects I'm too busy to work on atm.
• The points about Affirmation, Communication, Entitlement, Testing etc. are ALL ALSO equally problems guys have... Don't cluster it all on women when men are just as bad... Men are often EXTREMELY unreasonable ON PURPOSE to help ensure that they'll get what they want from a girl (physically) then get her annoyed enough that she'll think it's her idea to move on and let him go when really he was just not looking for a permanent or emotional thing from her.
• If guys weren't so obsessed with looking... women would not give a shit about their looks. See how they will accept a guy who doesn't look like the sharpest tool in the shed? It's bc she's looking for more of an emotional connection than a physical one... The ones seeking out the gym rats possibly only want a physical thing, but that can also be said of guys.
• Not "allowing" him to be himself? Come on, man. Everyone changes a little in a relationship because we all try to "make room" for the other person in our lives. If a person is trying to transform a partner completely, the partner should be smart enough to leave, whether it's the guy or the girl. Guys often expect a girl to cut off all her friends (even her family) to be with him. I've seen it first hand and lived through it in my own marriage. What you're suggesting about women (as a blanket concept for all women) is insane...
• Talking down? Heard of "Mansplaining"? That's a popular expression today for a reason. It's not one of my faves, but it wouldn't have boomed if it wasn't something that more guys do than girls...

[sawno]

I think you took the post in a different way that its intended. Its more of a general Don't Do This. Kind of thing with traits that some women screw up on. there's no implication men don't do similar things and if there was a reverse version it would have overlap.

I basically agree with everything he lists but in many cases only in specific circumstances. Obviously your gonna test a partner for example, its the way how that matters. If she purposefully tries to get me angry as a test thats toxic and ill walk. If he tests what she can get away with thats very likely to go over a line that will make me walk. But my ex did a subtle test where she wanted to find out if I only saw her for sex by suddenly changing gears to a more serious topic and wondering if I could shift with her. That kind of test of my capabilities is fine, but testing boundaries is not fine.

The rest of his points need to be taken similar ways. Talking down he means belittling and trying to lower his self worth, self confident men won't put up with that. Men don't explain because we think girls are dumb, we explain because most people we'd explain to don't know because they aren't as in to the things we are in to. And in my case its also often out of passion for the subject (That comes with dating a geek).

But yes the hobbies thing is massively common, not so much the lack of hobbies as the divide in interests between the two genders. Finding a partner is hard for me as a result, most I can't level with. I know its a me issue since there's just not as many girls who genuinely enjoy deep geeky conversations, computers, etc, but its such a void if my partner doesn't apprechiate me at least talking about my hobbies and philosophizing together that i can't settle for someone who doesn't like that. She wouldn't love the real me at that point.

[DishLady]

@sawno 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[myTake Owner]

Men aren’t perfect and when I talk about things men do people get pissed too. I didn’t say all women are like this

[myTake Owner]

If you’re pushing each other to change for the better that’s one thing. But especially being married to someone I’ve seen people who can’t be themselves in their own houses. You’ll eventually go crazy….

[myTake Owner]

And saying “well tou should be smart enough to leave” that’s how narcissists think and feel… if you’re not smart enough or can’t stand up for yourself you deserve it.

Unfortunately a lot of good people of both sexes end up in a relationship that started off great but turns abusive. They have their partners best interests at heart so they project that onto their partner meanwhile the narcissists project who they are feeling they need to get you before you get them.

I don’t think it’s okay to tell someone whose in a abusive relationship of any kind that they should have been smarter or stood up for themselves….. Because plenty of women also find themselves in these same situations

[myTake Owner]

Also mansplaining is a very sexist word…. There is womansplaining too…. It’s called being prideful and arrogant.

Also half the time it’s not even mansplaing. It’s just low IQ women who can’t do anything and get angry when they can’t understand what a guys saying

[myTake Owner]

Also…. Not all men just want a sexual connection and there is women like this as well who just want to jump into bed.

You could say by your logic is a woman’s dumb enough to sleep with him she deserves it. But that’s not necessarily true either now is it boo….

Check yourslef your seem to have a lot of hate towards men. Don’t take your romantic and sexual frustrations out on all men. We aren’t all your romantic partners. Not all women are my type either but I don’t just hate them

[myTake Owner]

It amazes me. When I call the men out. I’m called a SIMP! I’m a white knight. I’m a woman on a blue account.

But as soon as I call women out…. Oh I’m a incel MGTOW loser who hates women…. Narcissistic people of either sex start seeing these traits in themselves and get defensive.

Because it’s only the same accounts getting defensive

[DishLady]

I think you just need to back away from your keyboard and calm tf down. You're taking yourself and this site way too seriously.

[myTake Owner]

Back away form my keyboard? Look at that long rant you just posted

[myTake Owner]

So don’t be a hypocrite if you’re gonna type other people can too. I think you’re triggered because you see something in yourself if anyone needs to calm down it’s you.

You seem to put a lot of care into some random persons opinion online

[DishLady]

As opposed to the screen after screen that you posted? Get back on your meds, man.

[myTake Owner]

I type fast lol so

[myTake Owner]

It’s just funny how I can call men out on shit and somehow I’m a white knight as well as a SIMP for women. But I call women out and I’m a INCEL….

I am obviously not talking about all women. But if you see these traits in yourself maybe that’s what is triggering you. You tend to use sexism as a deflection acting like all women are like you when they’re not.

I don’t think all men are like me…. For instance some men tolerate all these traits. I don’t know why but at least they’re not wasting my time

[myTake Owner]

But in the end. I’ll give you A for effort unless you just used AI to type. I’ll say you worked harder then most other people so you can have MHO. I’ll throw you a bone if it props your ego a little

[Professor-college]

Spend three hours choosing shoes to buy and in the end not getting anything

[myTake Owner]

@Professor-college eh…. Honestly I don’t mind. Some people go out because they’re bored

[myTake Owner]

@Professor-college that or don’t find anything. Long as she’s not blowing my money I don’t really care. If I get bored I can always look at my shoes

[fish5505_87]

I lost myself in your response, I agree with your statement, whether it was taken in context or not!
Well said!

[DishLady]

@fish5505_87 The sidebar gave me a migrane tbh. Last time I answer any of this mf's questions...

[HighlyQuestionable]

I must take a bit of umbrage with some of your comments, and one is difficult for me to understand, what do you mean by "See how they will accept a guy who doesn't look like the sharpest tool in the shed? It's bc she's looking for more of an emotional connection than a physical one.." Firstly, how does one look like the "sharpest tool in the shed". Secondly, why is a dull man more appropriate for an emotion relationship than an intelligent one in your (misguided) opinion? Frankly, I am at a loss to understand that one. Additionally, "Guys" do not routinely "expect a girl to cut off all her friends".

[msc545]

Entitlement, lack of gratitude, and shit-testing in women are my three deal-breakers.

[myTake Owner]

I agree there is better move on

[Jsidfo]

Men can be just as entitled, if not more just as a reminder!

[msc545]

@Jsidfo Unneeded Reminders like this are another thing we hate.

[MisterWack]

I think these are qualities that no one wants in anybody they meet let alone their partner lol.

Men want an honest, open minded, kind, sweet, warm & inviting, funny, supportive, loyal, respectful, and a shoulder to cry on - kinda lady because she’d do the things he’d do for her, nobody wants a partner who refuses to do the same.

Hobbies, interests, and things that add a personal touch to her personality are good because that is the human spirit though I honestly don’t think men care about them like it isn’t a deal breaker if he isn’t interested in them himself though he’s happy for her being happy & letting out emotions through the activity.

[myTake Owner]

I agree

[Hellraiser1984]

Expecting to marry a rich man. It's a Fairy tale mothers tell their daughters that one day a rich man will come and take them away and live in his castle where she'll never have to work again. Most people don't make much more than $60k a year. That includes women. Why would a rich guy be interested in a poor or middle class woman except for sex. Their parents will never accept you or your children. Most rich guys aren't nice guys and go through girlfriends like a box of Kleenex. A lot of rich guys are possessive and controlling and violent. You don't get rich by being nice. Women need to wake up and realize they're not princesses and never will be. Get your lazy asses to work.

[myTake Owner]

But these women rarely have anything to offer someone rich. But what tends to happen is that they take advantage of a man whose hard working to make ends meet

[myTake Owner]

After they’re passed around

[Kelley1]

It is what we will NOT do that men hate such as we will not watch them show dick or we will not send nude photos.

[myTake Owner]

Sending unsolicited photos is nasty

[myTake Owner]

But most men aren’t just wanting random nudes. Those type of men are the ones who deserve the women they get who check all the boxes I listed…. I’ll just say that

[Kelley1]

Sending unsolicited dick pics is what most men do.

[myTake Owner]

Most men don’t but some do and it’s always the ones with ugly penises too

[myTake Owner]

But Kelly those kind of men will never find a woman whose a winner. They will find losers who will make them absolutely miserable.

Kelly I can tell you’re a winner and you deserve to have someone who genuinely loves you as much as you love him. You have s lot to offer. If all a man wants is sex he can get that form any snake in the dirt.

[Pet68]

"Most" men send dick pics? I don't think so. Maybe they're sending them to you because you have naughty pictures displayed somewhere.
I've never sent a dick pic in my entire life, and I never will. Men who send women dick pics are just immature idiots.

[myTake Owner]

@Pet68 I don’t think I’ve ever done that especially not someone I hardly know no telling what’s going to be done witn it

[audreyrogers]

"Constantly on social media and getting validation to feed your ego"

OK. I get it and I see that nobody likes that kind of person.
However, men especially keep giving attention to the very people they claim not to like.
I don’t understand. Why?

[myTake Owner]

Well because they’re also pathetic. I can add this to my list for men as well…. They do it too because they think she will notice for some odd reason. Even if he’s one of thousands of men

[Sunrising]

The thing that females do that I hate the most, is when I ask them out, and they turn me down !

[myTake Owner]

Oh well move on it’s worse to string someone along.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

great article brother!

I would add more though...

expressing yourself too sexually

having too much male friends

and many others

[myTake Owner]

I agree but I respect a open Whore more then one who hides who she is and you don’t find out until later

[Filthy_Immigrant]

true but can't forget that ones that do do it for attention and validation

[myTake Owner]

Yeah

[strateguy632]

3rd fishing for complimented is a turn off. I dumped several pretty gals, rather than admit they were pretty, just kuz they hinted they wanted to hear it.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Take and alienate kids from their fathers for no reason except because they can, were told to by lawyers or whomever, or just out of pure maliciousness.

And vote for judges and politicians that enable them to do so

[NicholasRedone]

The dynamic may vary from human to human 👍🏻 👎🏻

[myTake Owner]

True

[Crazzyyworld]

Women are full of shit but men too. Elon musk is hitler, xijinping is a thief kanye west is a murderer

[myTake Owner]

Elon isn’t Hitler and people get pissed off when I call men out too

[Manuelwe]

Why do will buy his sperm and have his children by test tube baby. Do these women think their child will haves a share of his cash? Will you do the same for cash?

[Pet68]

Yes, exactly! 100% spot on! I absolutely loathe people who play mind games and expect me to be psychic! I am NOT a mind reader! Just say what you want and mean what you say. It's not a hard thing to do, and it's not much to expect.

All the women on this site should read this at least a dozen times, print it out, and stick it on their fridge.

[grega239]

This might just be me. Touching me when we dont know each that much

[myTake Owner]

I agree people get too touchy. With my partner yes touch is important. But I can’t stand it when randos just start touching me

[Anonymous]

Using their feelings against them. When they are losing an argument.

Falsey accused him of S. A. cause he didn't want to what she wanted.

[myTake Owner]

A lot of times it happens because they regret sleeping with someone or people find out and get embarrassed

[Anonymous]

expecting certain men to be simps and cucks while allowing others to do whatever they want

basically making rules for the beta and breaking rules for the alpha

[GAGsucksballs89170]

One thing I can't stand they do, is when a man knows what she's doing, but, she still won't admit it, because she "doesn't want him to be right"

[HighlyQuestionable]

You've covered most of the "big" ones.

[Apple1996]

Thank you for this list of things men hate. I will try to accomplish all of them everyday 😊

[myTake Owner]

Well you claim to have a husband so…. You probably make him miserable as it is already

[myTake Owner]

I mean what does he even get from you other then a life of misery? And getting cheated on

[myTake Owner]

You probably do these things anyways and more

[Apple1996]

Lol for sure

[myTake Owner]

So why is he even still married to you

[myTake Owner]

I really don’t know what he gets from you

[Apple1996]

Gets from me? Lol why do you think women are only something to be used?

[myTake Owner]

No I don’t think either sex is. I feel like your relationship is very one sided

[myTake Owner]

But nice try at deflecting. You make your husband miserable you lazy cheating sack of filth

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

People should give in a relationship, both parties should give certain things the other wants and needs.

[myTake Owner]

@Oncewildtwiceburned well this woman is a horrible narcissist

[myTake Owner]

@Oncewildtwiceburned she married a man in the military for benefits and this relationship won’t last. It will be like all the other skanks wjo marry men in service

[Apple1996]

My husband wasn't in the military when I met him. We had our first son and got married before him ever joining

[myTake Owner]

Well he’s MISERABLE if you’re doing all these things.

[chocolatetwopointo]

checked all the boxes✅

[myTake Owner]

You don’t seem male validation. I will give you that one

[myTake Owner]

Which isn’t a bad trait either.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if anything i hate it

[myTake Owner]

So you don’t check all the boxes

[chocolatetwopointo]

no i meant i dont like male validation

[myTake Owner]

I know but you said you check all the boxes

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah?

[myTake Owner]

Well you don’t check that one

[chocolatetwopointo]

which one?

[myTake Owner]

Needing validation

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so u meant ”need” instead of ”seem” in ur first response?

[myTake Owner]

Yeah

[Manuelwe]

Sixteen
Done of it.
What to live for
Oh yes kids money and an abuse.
Be careful young one playing games

[Manuelwe]

As your young and the list is for older women.
You may think your like the women he has claimed he hate women do.
But he never ask.
What do women really hate that men do.
You will shock by number one answer. Lying to have sex then leave you for a younger model or bigger breasts

[chocolatetwopointo]

it was a joke. what r u talking ab?

[Manuelwe]

I know but in case be careful

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? careful of what? tf r u on ab? u high?

[Manuelwe]

Not high but no of women who take joke like yours seriously and died

[chocolatetwopointo]

what

[Manuelwe]

You and I will never meet. Your questions and answers show me that you could be using this site to relax you.
But as you said you check all the boxes at 16 year old. Even if you was 60 years old. I would fear your sense of humour could be putting you in danger.
I know of many teenage girls who done things they thought was funny and ended up dead or even murdered. Usually upsetting other teenage girls who got upset by their actions. Even you find it funny that does not mean all will. You have the right to live your life. That is what I mean. Ok. I leave you the final word

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would responding to a question on gag be putting me in danger? i think they’ll be fine? its not that serious? respond to my questions please

[myTake Owner]

@Manuelwe dude what the fuck are you even talking about

[myTake Owner]

@Manuelwe now I agree there are girls who share too much information online. Get caught up with old weird men and other stuff like that.

I’ve seen many cases or that but

[Manuelwe]

Part 1

I decided to give one last reply in three parts

I had a cousin who was very kind and beautiful.

Sadly she died from cancer. But then my sister boyfriend decided to make jokes about her death. He did not care how he hurt my family and me.

But two weeks later, his dad died of a heart attack. I gave him a taste of how I felt when he made jokes about my cousin death.

End of part 1

The moral is responsible for your actions.
As what you find funny some one might not.
This true story of what goes around comes around

[chocolatetwopointo]

what the fuck r u on ab now? nobody will fucking kill me for saying ”i checked all the boxes” fucking retard

[Manuelwe]

There is no fool. like you

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Professor-college]

Never letting go of a mistake that can be months or years old... That's incredibly annoying

[Manuelwe]

Vote for Trump. As they love money more than history
Will sell anyone or anything for money.
Plus will lie about rape when after sex you dump them. Either be my lover or go to jail as a rapist.

[Manuelwe]

It is funny that this App is called Girls ask Guys. So why hide your identity? Let us be honest. We men need to deal with the violence we do on women. The rape of family members.
But the thing that all women are guilty of is loving a man or father, who rapes them grabbed their body parts in public, see them rape other people's children and even Rob old people. Then defend their actions all for the fact he has money he has power and she says she is affairs to leave him. Lies of course.
Miss Maxwell and her dead lover Epstein.
Look what she done for him. Or was it for her own sexual needs. Did see have sex with very young boys and teenboys too