Search Results: wanting flings

Would it be weird to tell him I love him even though we are not a couple?

Him and I started as a fling, but for various reasons (mostly him not wanting kids) we ended that and we remained friends. There was a little bit of drama during break up but over the time we became very close friends (a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy asks if this has a purpose?

Ok so I’ve known this guy for a while and he says he has feelings but it’s hard to believe him because he’s a bit of a womanizer but treats me so different. recently asked me if sex with him is just cause or does it have...

Lillyabersmith

Xper 2 Age: 25

Do men get shy and awkward around women they only want to have a fling with?

Basically do men get approach anxiety with a woman they only lust for or is it for someone they want a deeper connection with.

ShimkairCandle

Xper 3 Age: 35

Why are men so insecure when dating or in a relationship?

It's as if they think they own us or we are their property when we flirt with other guys (even in relationships). This is precisely the reason why I refuse to get serious in flings and I never really want to settle for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is lovers a nice way to say friends with benefits?

I've been long distance with my lover for nearly seven months. He works in the bush so we talk rarely (see each other even less often) but we carry decent conversations and can be very romantic and all the usual stuff...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do/look for to figure out if the age difference will be a problem with a guy 15 years younger I've started dating?

During my very painful divorce trials I started hooking up with a much younger guy (15 years younger) and have been hooking up with him regularly ever since (past 8 or so months). He comes when my ex gets the kids (which...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do you believe there's more to a sexual relationship than just it being the thing between married couples?

I've had a long think about this because I've never really had relationships like other people. They find someone date then call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, during their relationship they take holidays, meet...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A previous summer fling texts me that he has a girlfriend, what does this mean?

So in the summer, I had a 3-month fling with a guy who lives in another state. At the end of the summer, he told me wanted nothing to do with me and didn't want to date me. Fast forward two months he unadds me off of...

Lizinthemist

Xper 4 Age: 24

Marriage & Weddings

What marrying a Registered Nurse (RN) taught me about being in love.

This myTake is inspired by all the doctors, nurses, and healthcare workers who have and still are working towards bettering patient outcome during the Covid-19 pandemic. Also inspired by new myTake from @DizzyDesii To...

aarnasen

Xper 5 Age: 24

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Teenage Fling Randomly Started Messaging After Nine Years. Why?

Nine years ago when I was sixteen and had just started college (UK). I met a guy who was nineteen at the time and being the young girl I was and who had never had a boyfriend I fell head over heels. Basically he cheated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just feeling a bit down.. need some serious advice I’m broken?

In the beginning I didn’t want to communicate with my sons dad because I remember him bothering me to take a pregnancy test kept saying I was pregnant I didn’t believe him.. Until I finally took the test and later he said...

Bracefacesummer

Xper 6 Age: 32

I did not have any boyfriend and didn’t experienced anything physically should I experience it?

I mean if i find someone who i love, of course He would have a past and it is not a problem because it is normal but because i haven’t experienced anything i want to experience something because if i didn’t experience i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Falling for a girl who has a man. What's my next move? Do I leave her alone or do I try and fight for what I know I really want?

Three years ago I had a fling with a neighbour but I was moving away for work in fall and we drifted apart. I ended up in a serious relationship with somebody else and we moved on. In May, I moved home and in recent...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Falling for a girl who has a man. What's my next move? Do I leave her one or do I try and fight for what I know I really want?

Three years ago I had a fling with a neighbour but I was moving away for work in fall and we drifted apart. I ended up in a serious relationship with and we moved on. In May, I moved home and in recent weeks we have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this coworker stiff/awkward around me because he's attracted or because he outright dislikes me?

This guy is perpetually stiff/awkward around me, even though he has plenty of female friends and has no trouble talking to them. He acts brooding/shy but he's slept around (discretely, with women in other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Do you like Dance clubs, what is your clubbing experiences like, My fourth confession?

In college, when I was 21 my friends and I would go dancing at this little hole in the wall club in town. I could really let it all out, have a blast. It was so much fun. I love dancing and always had guys just...

Aerissa_Jade

Guru Age: 25

Am I a rarety or is this more common than I think?

I am 27, and I have gone all my life so far never having a real girlfriend. No, I am not a virgin (thank God), but I have never been in an actual relationship before. I had sex once and only once during a weekend fling...

Inthecraphole

Xper 5 Age: 31