What does it mean when a guy asks if this has a purpose?

[Lillyabersmith]

Ok so I’ve known this guy for a while and he says he has feelings but it’s hard to believe him because he’s a bit of a womanizer but treats me so different. recently asked me if sex with him is just cause or does it have a purpose? Then said we should wait till we can have a long term relationship bc our complete different lives rn.. but has relationships with others or more so flings he usually breaks up with them because I don’t want to be in the middle of his relationship because he still treats me more than a friend and I don’t like that. He said he doesn’t want to do anything stupid that could mess us up before it means something.. does this guy actually care about me or just saying that nice stuff because I won’t let him have sex with me without a relationship?

[DaveJord]

Well only one way to really find out... but its obvious that you have issues being
vulnerable with guy. Maybe he is serious, but starting off any relationship with trust issues in a bad idea. If he was serious in wanting to be with you then he would probably take a more direct line with you.

Sounds like a classic bad boy routine to me, if you decide to be with I would not get emotionally infested and if that is what you want then I would stop right now and stay away from him.

[Anonymous]

You give the answer away in your question. He's a womanizer. A player. A fuckboy. Of course he'll say whatever sounds good to a girl to get into her pants.

[Lillyabersmith]

Yeah and fortunately I’m smart enough to know better to get involved with a fuck boy but I guess it clouds your judgment when you have feelings for them LOL.. just confused me when he had the opportunity to have sex but told me let’s not do anything stupid to mess us up before it means something 🤣

[spartan55]

He's working every angle to get that pie.

[Anonymous]

Men will say anything. Don't trust them.

[In_Trance]

This guy seems like a douchebag

[Avicenna]

Yeah, he’s after sex

[Hellraiser1984]

Move on.