Search Results: how do i find out if a girl likes me

I just can't get these girls. They match on Tinder, they respond and then 2 hours later I find myself unmatched! I can't get it.

This particular girl I matched with when I was abroad. She said hi first. I replied telling her that I was on vacation and stuff. Then we didn't chat more. Today about 12 days later I sent her Happy Chrsitmass. To my amazement she answered within 5 minutes with a Happy Xmass to you too. I pressed like on her message. And that's all I did. I did not bother her or anything. And then about 2 hours later I went to open my Tinder app to check her profile a bit to see her pics because I did find her attractive, and I found that she had unmatched me!!!

Can someone explain? It's always the same story. Or if not always lets say very often. Like who the fuck do these girls think they are? Imagine if you are in a relationship with a girl and one slip and that's it she pulls off the plug. OR not even a wrong slip, because I haven't done anything to her, still she pulls of the plug for nothing. :( I can't believe it.

I’ve always been one to wear black boots on a first date, such as my Rocky 1950’s, or black smooth Timberlands, but was wondering if something more casual would be less intimidating. Girls, are black boots like the following on a guy a turn off or do you find them sexy?

Attached are some more casual options which I have tried, but usually wear them less due to the brown and blue being harder to match.

Can you tell if a guy finds you attractive but doesn't want to come off as weird or creepy and is making an effort not to stare or look at you?