Search Results: mental illness

I just watched an excerpt from CNN about the rapidly rising demand for AI girlfriends, or artificial intelligence that will have in-depth and personal conversations with you.

While it could be a healthy alternative outlet for a lot of young men who never stand a chance at dating real women, a lot of people think it will ruin dating more than dating apps already have. I also recently saw a question on here talking about how to split expenses with your significant other and it devolved into several arguments. Calling even the basics into question.

Considering all the rapidly changing challenges of modern dating and the plummeting birth rate, rise in mental illness and other economic woes, it begs the question:

Will we as a society figure out modern relationships or will society loose cohesion and fall apart before we get the chance?

For most men, the requirements for a good woman are:

1. He needs to find you attractive (bare minimum is average (5/10), below average (4/10)

2. Show him respect

3. Show him affection

4. Don't be promiscuous or engage in sex work (malleable for a lot of guys)

5. Be loyal

6. Cook and clean (flexible in this day and age with a lot of guy dropping this as a requirement).

7. Be willing to have a kid for him

8. No substance abuse disorders (e. g. alcohol or illegal drugs)

9. No mental illness

For women, the requirements for a good man are:

1. Must meet a certain height threshold (usually 6'0 or taller; top 20% in height)

2. She needs to find you attractive (7+/10 or higher)

3. Must gain her friends and family approval

4. Must have good income/job/place/car (usually 6 figures)

5. Must show her affection

6. Must provide for her

7. Must protect/risk your life for you

8. Must be willing to self sacrifice yourself for her

9. Must take on leadership role/decision making

10. Must be loyal (flexible as a lot of women are willing to forgo this if other needs are met)

11. Must be experienced with women (women hate inexperienced men)

12. Must be highly socially intelligent/charming

13. Must have high status

14. Must have good social connections

15. Must display girl approval/value by displaying that other women want you.

Some facts about me:

• I am 5'6" in height
• I have never had a real girlfriend
• I am introverted and socially awkward
• I am white
• I have brown eyes
• I am currently heavyset with a round face.
• I have only had sex exactly once about 8 years ago and haven't even kissed a woman since
• I have always wanted a girlfriend so badly my entire life but have never been able to achieve getting one.
• I seek a woman where we can be each other's first loves
• I am an Aspie and have mental illness (Bipolar, anxiety, and OCD)
• I have a stalking conviction dating back 7 years ago. I plead no contest not knowing the consequences of that. I served 3 years probation.