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My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.

So I (29F) just got back together with my on again off again boyfriend (29M). We use to date on and off for years. Sometimes it was a year sometimes it was less. Whatever the case, the relationship would end because I just stopped having the emotional connection to him. The last time we were together he was living with me. I just got out of a relationship and he was there for me to help move my, at the time, ex out. He then moved in that same day. We were together for a while but I woke up one morning and felt bad that he felt strongly for me but I wasn't into him anymore. Note, before he wasn't really a great boyfriend. He never really did things for me and I didn't like the input he had over my style and such. But I really think he's changed. My issue is, I don't want to be his rebound. He just got out of a serious relationship and he really opened up to me and shared his vulnerable side. We were just going to meet for drinks because we wanted to remain friends. I was actually seeing someone at the time that I was planning on having a future with, we were together 7 months, and was going to move in with him in August. So I am sure we both have that in common, fresh out of a committed relationship. My boyfriend at the time was being kind of paranoid because I did cheat on him Mother's day and he didn't like the idea of me going to grab dinner with one of my ex's. I told him there was nothing to worry about but once I had a few drinks it was a done deal. My boyfriend at the time was also concerned because my ex is a coke dealer and I was a recovering addict. Later that night I told him the dinner had finished but I didn't tell him my ex stayed for more drinks and we went out and we ended up partying with old friends and getting high. I am worried that my new exbf will freak out my boyfriend (former ex) and I am scared he isn't over his girlfriend. I feel like my current ex isn't over me so I am scared to think my former ex isn't over his ex