I never understood this anniversary stuff for people who are just dating. That’s only something married couples should do. Anyway, if you insist on having an anniversary date, I think this guy just revealed his true feelings about his ex, then got mad because it exposed something he may have wanted hidden from you. He sounds mad at you because you dragged it out of him. Regardless it’s not your fault her reacted that way. The truth is probably going to hurt you. It sounds like he isn’t over his ex. Is this something you can move forward with? I think you need to ask yourself that. He also sounds disrespectful and condescending. Maybe it’s time to rethink this relationship?
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I don’t understand this. Why not make the anniversary the day you started dating? That’s literally what an anniversary is. Why celebrate something when it isn’t the day of? You are setting yourself up for him to say stuff like this because you two can’t just accept your actual anniversary. Making up an anniversary sounds juvenile
So basically you're telling him never to be honest with you when you jump down his throat like that.
Is it really that hard to just ask for a different date, or the actual date things started, instead of stirring up drama?
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Damn, I’m kinda on the same boat as you except that we haven’t made it official yet. I think it’s reasonable for you to be upset that he’s basically treating you like a rebound. How long after the relationship ended did you guys get together? He seems insensitive, he should take your feelings into account and not be so defensive about it. If you were to change the date to your old anniversary date with your ex, how would he feel?
That's extremely stupid. Like it's too hard to remember a different date? No he's being lazy and inconsiderate for no good reason.
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