How to get men from my past to stop messaging me?

[Anonymous]

Hi everybody, I am a 25 year old woman and I am in a happy relationship for 4 years now. I love my boyfriend very much, but before I met my him I used to talk to many guys in the past ( something I am not proud of ) and somehow these men that I deleted their numbers long ago even before I started my relationship keep popping up and messaging me randomly, it's happening a lot recently and it makes me feel bad and insecure about how many guys I use to speak with, or gave my number too off facebook or dating apps due to being desperate for a boyfriend and having a very very low self esteem. Now that im with my loving partner and by the way I have told him about this situation, and I even tell him when someone messages me he gets a bit upset but he trusts me and i block them right away. My question is what should I do? these no life men all of a sudden after 5+ years decide to message me all the time and everytime its somebody else it happens every few months or so. How do I stop this once and for all?

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's called changing your number. Why don't you try it?

Look these dudes you used to chat with get lonely, and then they hit up every number they have and it's a game of "hit and miss" because some chicks will actually respond and some won't.

With that said you responding at all is retarded, so I hope you don't do that. If you do... you're an attention whore deep inside still and I hope you hate yourself for it.

[Anonymous]

You don't. You, like many others, are now finding out that the actions of the past have set expectations on you in others' eyes. Like a cop who stops an ex con. The ex con may very well be reformed... but many aren't, and the cop has stopped thousands before, most of whom weren't. Guys expect you to follow the actions of your past. It set a precedent. You can only focus on your boyfriend, change your number or just keep blocking numbers.

[IslaTheWitch]

If blocking doesn't work, you have to change your number and keep it restricted.

[RainBat]

Respond to them once, I PROOOOOOMISE they will stop immediately after.

[mementomorii-]

everyone can make mistakes in the past, change your number, make your account private and block those men

I wish you a good day🥹

[Asker]

Thank you, will do and have an amazing day as well <3

[mementomorii-]

You are welcome ❤️

[boggboss]

Make accounts private and block numbers if it still happens change your number

[Asker]

The thing is I dont have social media or dating apps anymore i deleted them before I met my boyfriend, I thought about changing my number but dont people get a notification on whatsapp when somebody changes their number?

[boggboss]

No get a new number start again message the people u want to add back separately lol

[Asker]

Alright will do thank you very much I appriciate it.

[boggboss]

Good luck hope it works out

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... Your close friends can be texted with your new number. You are delaying because you are hesitant to cut ties with the past.

[Yannae]

I would block them all. Worst case scenario you could always change your number.

[Asker]

Thanks, im actually changing my number now, I blocked so many yet so many others keep popping up at random and I've been done with this part of my life many years ago, I dont want these creepy guys messaging me after so long and now that im happy with my life and boyfriend. It just makes me feel bad.

[Yannae]

They should feel bad, they're too late! I would just ignore the calls and DM's put the phone on silent.

[Asker]

Thanks <3

[normalice]

Photoshop a picture of yourself so that you look morbidly obese and use it in all of your social media profiles.

[JacobJordan]

Well you definitely can't change your phone number... you definitely can't block them. You definitely can't just ignore them.

[Anonymous]

I left a message to an old female friend. Doesn’t mean shit other than I miss her as a “FRIEND.” You are self centered. Not everyone wants to sleep with you.

[Friendlybro79]

Keep doing what you're doing and block them or change your number. Its not hard to message the people you want to have your number your new number. That is the easiest. Ask others to not give out your new number too.

[Likes2drive]

Either change your phone number or tell each one that messages you that you’re in a committed relationship

[Nikki1989]

Disable messaging on your phone. Problem solved.

[Afvenom]

Cut off all ties, block the number and make it clear you are not interested and are in a commited relationship. Good Luck

[Twalli]

Tell them you're in a relationship now and not interested in reconnecting

[Dreamclouds]

what the... just tell them your soul belongs in an other place now.

[Jmmmfi4]

CHANGE YOUR NUMBER

[laly520]

block em or change number

[Anonymous]

Lmfao consequences of being desperate 💀

Just change your number.

[Paris13]

Let Them Know or just Block Them. xxoo

[Daniela1982]

Get a new phone number - problem solved!

[KrakenAttackin]

You will miss this attention once it stops.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I will scroll down out of curiosity after viewing my own post... we're always thinking along the same lines. Our opinions differ here and there but we're thinking the same shit with each question. Here for instance..."attention" seems to be what we both had in mind even though we went in different directions with it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@D_Bone_Steak She is having a taste of accountability from her hoe past. Echoes from the past can be a mother fucker.

[In_Trance]

Block them

[Asker]

I do block them but it doesn't help the problem, because different guys message me and its just too weird how so many of them after so many years without any contact have the audacity to message me again, I dont understand that mentality at all. Why would anyone keep the number of somebody they never even met and decide to message them after 5+ years its really weird tbh I don't know.

[In_Trance]

They keep your number and reach out every once in awhile for the possibility of having sex with you. This typically happens because they're bored and out of other options. When something else does come along they stop messaging you
Both men and women do this

[Asker]

I can understand that I just personally won't ever do something like that, thats why its shocking for me. Anyways thank you for the input!

[Anonymous]

Do a clear out