If I want to get a man, but keep finding men who stop texting every time, how can I get him?

[TheSimFans]

How can i get the guy I want without getting anymore red flags or any guys that stop texting me ellvanty. i don't give sex on any first date or meetup. So far, I have seen a similar pattern when I met up with one man and another, but stopped texting after a week. so again time to move and back to online dating and guy hasn't commented on anything about relationship but before we met up. i back with online dating and how can i get men that i want without a men getting what he want from me that i might not like him or might not know what to do. i has taken a break for weeks. to see anything change. i just seem to be getting more bad lucks and some red flags. also i don't want a guy that text to fast or doesn't listen to me since that is a dealbreak. i also don't want a men that stop texting. i just want a men in middle of both texting and not texting.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that finding a compatible partner takes time and patience, and that it's not uncommon to encounter some disappointments and frustrations along the way. However, there are some things you can do to increase your chances of finding a good match:

1. Be clear about your boundaries and expectations: it's important to communicate your needs and expectations with potential partners from the beginning. If you're not comfortable with having sex on the first date, it's important to communicate that clearly and set boundaries that feel comfortable for you.

2. Take the time to get to know people: it's important to take the time to get to know someone before jumping into a relationship or physical intimacy. This can involve building a connection through conversation and shared interests, and being patient as you get to know each other better.

3. Look for common values and interests: finding someone who shares your values and interests can be a great foundation for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It's important to look for someone who aligns with your goals and values, and who you feel comfortable and connected with.

4. Trust your gut: it's important to listen to your intuition and trust your instincts when dating. If something feels off or uncomfortable, it's important to pay attention to those feelings and communicate your concerns with your partner.

5. Be patient and keep an open mind: finding a compatible partner takes time and patience, and it's important to keep an open mind and be willing to try new things and meet new people. It's important to remember that everyone has their own unique journey when it comes to finding love, and that the right person may come along when you least expect it.

[GreekLorrd]

It's important to remember that you cannot "get" a man to be interested in you or pursue a relationship with you. Attraction and connection are mutual, and both parties need to be interested in each other for a relationship to work.

That being said, there are a few things you can do to increase your chances of finding a compatible partner:

Be clear about your intentions: Make it clear on your dating profile or during your initial conversations that you are looking for a serious relationship, and that you don't engage in casual sex.

Take your time: It's important to take your time getting to know someone before meeting in person, and to be cautious about sharing personal information or meeting in private places.

Communication is key: Once you have met someone and started dating, make sure to communicate openly and honestly about your expectations, needs, and boundaries. If someone is not responding to your messages or seems disinterested, it's better to move on and focus on finding someone who values your time and attention.

Don't settle: It's better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you or your boundaries. Don't be afraid to hold out for someone who is compatible and meets your standards.

Remember that finding the right person takes time and effort, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. Don't let bad experiences or red flags discourage you, and keep an open mind to new possibilities.

[TheSimFans]

@GreekLorrd i done most of things and so far nothing seem to work. kept getting red flags and did take break from online dating. i can get tons of likes and some match. i have only got limited option since i date men with a learning disability since i also got a learning disability that also doesn't help with dating and let people know about to. just find men that are older men that could be looking for to setting down not being married i don't really care.

[GreekLorrd]

Please don't be hurt.. Don't let such problems reduce your belief in love. You deserve the best. You must not forget.

[TheSimFans]

i don't got no expectoration from men since all men did had and had 9 ex boyfriend. so what the point of it then. yep each single one so far online did me dirty. in the wrong. nothing do with sex.

[GreekLorrd]

It's also important to consider what you're looking for in a relationship and whether you're attracting the right type of people. Sometimes, we can unintentionally attract people who aren't compatible with us or who don't have our best interests at heart.

Instead of focusing on your past experiences, try to focus on what you want in a relationship and what you can do to attract the right kind of person. This might mean working on your own self-confidence and self-worth, as well as being clear about your boundaries and expectations in a relationship.

Remember that it's okay to take a break from dating and focus on yourself for a while. You deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect and kindness, and it's worth taking the time to find that person.

[TheSimFans]

yep i also done these things also . i got no more expectation for men since they already ruin all.

[GreekLorrd]

Men don't deserve you.. You're great, you shouldn't forget. You have a heart as delicate as cotton candy.

[TheSimFans]

yep learn frpm mistake and try not make the same mistake. kept going for older men maybe better

[TheSimFans]

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[GreekLorrd]

Or maybe you've always had bad luck. That's why we have to break this cycle.

[TheSimFans]

that problem how can i break cycle part from being mean tp men only way to break it.

[GreekLorrd]

This time you will pre-select while talking to the men.

[TheSimFans]

also has been doing that. so far none and got some. not many.

[GreekLorrd]

Oh my god.. the men who break your heart must be stupid..

[TheSimFans]

yep and i'm always honest and can be strict since i got no time men messing with me and they will be warn.

[GreekLorrd]

This is how it should be. Communication and respect are also very important in a relationship.

[slatyb]

Do you actually go on dates, or do you just want to text?

[slatyb]

Actually the real problem is that you think sex is something you can trade for something else. It's not. it's something two people do together.

[TheSimFans]

I'm not interested in having sex at all. It's not that important to me. That's not what real relationships are about.

[slatyb]

Sex is an important part of most relationships. Your disinterest in having sex makes you sexually incompatible with most men. They realize this and drop you. To save time you might just tell them this on the first date, or before.

[TheSimFans]

is not that fucking important. is not part all relationship

[slatyb]

That's your feeling. Most people don't feel the same way.

[TheSimFans]

Yet I'm different from most people.