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So i just finish reading a piece by a person named, George Smith, who just came out of a divroce only to realize that a lot of women these days don't want sex, relationship from majority of males but their attention.


"After a divorce, George Smith, 47, is dating again and finding that women don't want sex or a relationship, just attention. "

And it seems that this seems to be a common thing. Just recently a question featured on front page had a guy talk about how he was played, and used for attention by a girl on FB.

"In talking to a girl om fb I like that I met on holiday and she's sending me mixed signals. One day she'll be really blunt about everything and not talk a lot then the next she'll be extremely flirty with me and will consistently initiate conversation.

I've come to the conclusion that she just likes talking to me when she's bored or when she wants to be complimented etc. I'm really fed up about it because I feel like I'm wasting my time and have decided I'm just not gonna message her anymore."

In addition to this I've come across a girl stating many women are getting screwed romantically with the men THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH and have opted to using the men they don't want sexually to give them the attention, affection they would have gotten in the relationship while using another guy completely for sex who i'm guessing is tall, handsome and couple tiers more attractive than them. If they can get both then is your boyfriend.

And then i ran across this woman's quote

"Attention until they are ready and want love. Attention is the same thing for woman as sex is for guys. If someone is throwing it at you, you aren't going to knock it off or shut it down. You will revel in it. Being wanted is better then being had. When girls are ready then they want love and to settle down just like guys. No not every girl needs or wants attention like that just like not every guy needs or wants sex like that but in my opinion it's different ends of the same thing."

Sometime i'm left asking this question when good guys who genuinely want a relationship with a girl end up getting played and used by girls for attention/ego boost.
In addition to this the amount of selfies/pics at events, girl take on social media and unnecessary fishing for compliments (e. g. posting a bikini pic with the caption feeling fat). And girls take it upon themselves now to post up text convo guy had with them just to make fun of them and get likes on social media these days.
Even when going out to public areas like the gym or nightclub, i find many women don't actual go there for the entertainment but for the ego boost and attention. I've seen girls do bizarre workouts that could injure them in the gym but would cause people to pay attention to them at the gym too.

Sometimes i'm even wondering whether women pick their boyfriend out of love or because they think being with him with boost the amount of attention they get from people. Hence, women love for guys who are musicians and are in a band.

Entire course of my life I have experienced this situation in my life and watched this happening over and over again in my friends and others life...

DETAILS - only for those who want to read
Case 1) day 1 my friend and his girlfriend in relationship.. My friend was getting attention from other girls..

Day 2) she broke up with my friend for some lunatic reason and said she hated him..

Day 3) she and her chick gang told all the girls not to give any attention to my friend and to stay away from him.. While she dressed herself like a sexy doll and came in to get his attention...
And when my friend approached a girl and began conversation and the girl showed interest, she sent in another girl who took that girl away..

Case 2) A women age 30 was good friends with me.. Until I screwed up and hurt her feeling!.. I apologized and after some days, I stopped talking to her.. Didn't responded her mails or hi... And she was like why aren't you replying... Later I told her straight up ' I am a bad person, who makes wrong choices, choices that hurt people, who like me, and I don't want to hurt her again as she is a special women to me.. And so she should steer clear of me' yet she keeps the talks Going on again and again things went downhill and she is blaming it all on me.. For downloading her pics from Facebook page which were public..
And she was all showing anger until I said I am clipping the chords again (she went all cool with words as I said it) , and she should steer clear of me now and forever...
Now she isn't showing her anger.. I am curious what is going inside her mind...

Why do women do this?