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Search Results: being comfortable with myself
What God has been teaching me this season
This is an image of a money tree because there was a time in my life where I honestly thought I could talk my way into money and respectability and marriage and jobs. But it did not fly. I learned that God expects...
Dating outside my race only?
I’m 21, Black female, I notice I date outside my race only. Like I’ve never actually been with a black man before, I’ve talked to some but never physical or anything. Well once, I met this one guy before who was my race...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are some tips for moving on?
Here a little bit of background : I was with this guy that didn’t want me but treated me as if we were in a relationship. He do everything that a boyfriend would do. The problem was was when I asked him about being in a...
Justneedtokno
Guru Age: 31 Is it normal to feel like this about social things?
Over the last few years, I've gotten really comfortable being alone and being by myself. I enjoy being by myself most of the time. But I also have tried to move on from my last relationship collapsing back in 2018....
answerseeker127
Xper 6 Age: 33 How many times a week are you supposed to be seeing the person you are dating?
Firstly, I have commitment issues and I am trying to overcome them. My issues is being too distant and feeling suffocated I guess. My first relationship we saw each other once a week but very rarely twice a week. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend moving in with female bestfriend?
A few weeks ago I found out that I fell pregnant (it was unexpected and I ended up miscarrying a week later). The morning after we found out we were laying in bed together just processing and my boyfriend randomly...
Anonymous
(30-35) It is wrong to prefer being a taker in a relationship?
Since every time I am a giver I get told that it's "not necessary" and that I should just let her and others take care of me, I've been getting more and more comfortable in being a taker. I don't give unless asked and...
When is too soon to say I love you?
When do you think is too soon to say I love you? A guy I have been dating for about 3 weeks now hit me with an unexpected "I love you". He's not very experienced in relationships, he's also younger than me, I'm 25...
Anonymous
(30-35) Like is there a problem with me protecting myself and keeping my sanity safe?
So, I'm going to get straight to my point, and try to make this, as short as possible. But, I noticed the different relationships and connections that I have had with particular people. I have had people tell me, that I...
Erica686
Xper 5 Age: 34 Splitting the bill is amazing!
No one owes anybody anything This is as simple as it gets. I pay for myself and he pays for himself (or we take turns but we'll need to be committed to each other first). That way no one can blackmail you into some kind...
Anonymous
(30-35) What does a man mean if he describes you as subservient? And is it ok if a woman is submissive personality?
My guy friend at work said that im subservient. Its a surprising word to hear cause you never really hear that word. I know people think its bad to be a submissive personality woman (please dont bring up sex... this...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you force yourself to fall in love with somebody else?
If I explained everything he did to me my ex would sound like he had no heart. I don’t think that was the case despite the fact that he really broke my heart. I don't know why I keep thinking of him lately. He was my...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Most Influential Black People in the History of the United States of America (Part 2)
We are in Black History Month in the United States of America(USA). Just as a premise, I'm not a black person myself, and I'm not writing this as a way to virtue signal, and this isn't performative activism. I'm not even...
EnglishArtsteacher
Editor Age: 35 I was emotionally broken for 18.5 years
I've talked about this before in some posts but I've finally completed the level. It's always easier to describe stuff when you look back on it than when you're still in the middle of it. Trauma I was always developing a...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 How to get guys to understand that I've never dated anyone before?
I have never been in a relationship before. I'm 25 and I am pretty (what I have been told). I'm not being full of myself or anything. Growing up I was never allowed to date mostly because my dad was very over protective...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is the hijab important to Muslim women?
I thought I'd share some light on the topic as I feel the hijab is very misunderstood and in rarer cases, looked upon as a symbol of oppression. I will try to answer this question as best as I can as a Norwegian Muslim...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you make somebody comfortable around you if you already creeped them out?
I have a crush on my coworker. I always offer to help him out bc I like him. I even offered to take his shift a few times because I just couldn’t say no to him. Also, on days where I needed the money but he asked for a...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I be more feminine and become more comfortable in my womanhood?
I’m an INTP, which 1-2% women are. I tend to be messy, live in my own head, and things like fashion/makeup/hairstyling are a chore for me. I find it hard to relate to my girl friends sometimes, and my interests are more...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why I resented women in the past.
This is a complicated issue but I think it's important to talk about because it's quite widespread nowadays. "The reason most men resent women is because their perspective is off. They’re focused more on things they can’t...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 What should I do?
A guy started liking me just over a year and a half ago. I have always had a hidden interest in him so I felt happy. But once he started showing more and more emotion, I could no longer handle it. I started ignoring him,...
Sarah9178
Xper 3 Age: 25 