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So this was over a month ago and things seem to have leveled out. But I’m left wondering about my behavior as being overly helpful and possibly making someone uncomfortable.

The door swings both ways with Me Too moments.

A guy I’m fairly chummy with in a twice a week smalller workout class happened upon me after class as I was leaving the shower room asking if I had seen his car keys.

I was caught off guard messing with my phone. I said I’d let the others know. This is a corporate provided workout and most of the people in it are in my company. I sent a group email about the keys not mentioning who lost them.

I circle back to the gym and ask him to enter his cell into mine and let him know I emailed the group about the keys.

CREEPY ON MY PART!! I hit send on my phone out of habit so it looked like I was hitting on him. He made this kind of shocked move then smiled and ran his hand through his hair whilst finding next words. I realized I was sending the wrong message.

I deleted his number at the end of the day. Seeing as no one in my group would be of help after that.

He was kind of standoffish for a while. I don’t think he was happy I emailed the others about the keys.

I then reflected on all the bits of social media you get access to on a person if you have their number and felt like a real creep.

He avoided me and is now back to friendly as usual.

A friend in our class told me I was being oblivious, he didn’t lose his keys and was just trying to start an exchange but I embarrassed him by letting others know about the keys. Obvy made up.

My stance is I crossed a line if he is in a relationship, we don’t talk above it these things but he has a little one.

I dont wear my engagement ring to class because it hurts and will get damaged.

I just want things to be cool. Something out of nothing?

i just don’t want to make similar mistakes with other people in the future.

Sorry about the confusion. Anyways, I’m 23 my little sister isn’t 18 and she’s the attractive one. She’s gotten attention her whole life and I’ve only recently started getting noticed. Four months ago we met this guy through a friend and both of us were attracted to him. He showed more interest in me which pissed off my sister. He told me that he liked both of us. She started flirting with him and his attention diverted away from me to her. I ended up leaving the state a few days later to go back to uni and not long after the two of them started hooking up. She said it was a no strings attached thing cause he was seeing someone on and off. Anyways, they haven’t seen each other in a month. They broke their hooking up thing off cause my sis started feeling guilty that he has a girlfriend and now she’s seeing someone. I’m back and he contacted me. One thing lead to another and we had sex, it was hot, he kept saying I’m better and all ( I know I shouldn’t but I found it hot) when my sis found out about our hookup she lost her temper. And told me I’m pathetic that I always take her seconds. In front of our mom she said that all the guys like her and when she drops them they crawl to me and that I’m so desperate that I accept them knowing that they didn’t want me at first. She got really angry. Then she forwarded me messages that he sent her last night, begging to see her and asking her why she dropped him. Now I feel like an idiot. We had sex three nights ago and all day today he’s been texting her. She’s been ignoring him. I’m so confused. He told me he liked me and all. What’s your opinion? Sorry for the long paragraph

- you and your ex been together for 1 and a half years together
- this is both your longest relationship
- you guys fight a lot so you decide to break it off but you still love her/him
- so you still want to remain in contact regularly and try to see your ex every week as just "friends"
- its been 4 months and your ex finally told you that they still wanna be with you but you think its not the right time to get back together
- you are not seeing any other girls/guys except your ex since you're just mainly focusing on your career
- then you found out that your ex has been seeing someone else
- you are hurt by this so you decide to move on and cut contact with your ex
- then few days later, your ex sends you a long message expressing their love for you and that they only want you and so they broke things off with that other person to be with you

Would you take your ex back?
Or not?