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Today I dmed my crush (knew he was single) and while talking to told me he leaves with his gal (apparently they got back together) I congratulated him and asked if he has someone nice to set me up with and he answered "calm down (my name)" so I asked him: why should I? You can be in a relationship and I dont? And he hasn't replied. Why does he act like that?

So I dmed my crush (knew he was single) and while talking to told me he leaves with his gal (apparently they got back together) I congratulated him and asked if he has someone nice to set me up with and he answered "calm down (my name)" so I asked him: why should I? You can be in a relationship and I dont? And he hasn't replied. Why does he act like that?

Should I just move on?

I was posting stories about how a guy coerced me and then this guy online tried to get close to me in a friendly way then we exchanged pics and he was like OMG you’re my future wife. And he started asking me if I wanted to have this basically D/s relationship with him where he tells me what to eat and wear all the time. Now I agreed and I like being under someone but I know now that I can’t just submit to any old Joe.

So at the time he was talking about how I’m going to be his wife and he soon flew from Chicago to my state. Thinking back I’m like why would he pay for a plane ticket just to lie, pump and dump me when he can easily do the same in his own state. It’s weird.

That’s why I’m questioning what the hell was this all about?

Anyway, we were together for a few days then he flew back to Chicago. He was still talking about how I was going to go to Chicago and move in with him and get married. I started asking about like ‘so when are you going to tell your family about me’ because I didn’t realize he hadn’t… and he said he can’t tell his mom yet because she wouldn’t understand our D/s relationship. I was like ok… but I started getting annoyed because be was being “too busy” (now I know that’s a fake ass excuse), he immediately blocked me EVERYWHERE even on the website we met LOL, and that was a year ago.

What was his whole point? Why did he do all that stuff?

That black people are impoverished not because socioeconomics, racism etc but because they blow every penny they get on overpriced consumer products, take loans they can't afford and don't save or invest for their future all to look like a baller.

In 2022 the black spending power hit a whooping 1.6 Trillion dollars? How much of that was spent Nike Jordans? 1 billion? How much spent on nails and hair extensions? On Mercedes? How much they spending paying the intrest payments on loans?

It's not that they are spending our money outside the black community that's the problem, it's that they spending it foolishly on crap they don't need rather than investing it in their own futures. Black Spending Power is just a pharse media people and community activists coined to make it sound like they oppressed but we got somehow got power due to how much money they blow each year. Nobody talks about white spending power or Asian spending power or jewish spending power, why? Because they save their money, they invest they money in bonds and shares, they get themselves mortgages rather than pay somebody else's mortgage with rent checks. You see a white guy or Asian guy he not spending $300 dollars on the latest Nikes made in a 3rd world country for a dollar, he might be driving a busted old Honda even though he making good money because he trying to get together the down payment on a house or start a business or get enough money to go to college. White women don't be spending $2000 per month on hair and nails. Asian people be pushing their kid's to do well at school and college.

They gotta look back and ask why all through segregation and Jim crow was the black community more prosperous then than now?

If you watch commercials now they are all aimed at black folks especially ones regarding loans.