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Search Results: we are not in an official relationship
My Friend W Benefits repeatedly brings up the idea of me eventually going to grad school near him. Does this mean his feelings are more complicated?
Met online and decided not to have an official relationship since he's moving for a job in 2 months (he felt strongly about this). I was under the impression that we would stop being a thing when he moved. However he's...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I know if my boyfriend sees himself marrying me?
My boyfriend and I have been official for about 7 months but we’ve been talking for about a year. Our relationship is amazing, we talk about everything and anything. He’s my best friend and we spend a lot of time...
Alicia257
Xper 5 Age: 32 Guys, after how long of dating do you expect to have sex?
I'm 24 years old, and kind of have a unique sitation. Growing up I had never felt attraction or interest towards guys. I had always identified myself as a lesbian and have only dated women. My most recent...
Anonymous
(30-35) Post-breakup depression?
I was talking to a guy from church for a year. We weren’t in an official relationship, there wasn’t anything physical happening, but I had a really close relationship with this guy. And I’ve never had a boyfriend, so he...
mermaidrocketship
Yoda Age: 31 When to make an LDR an official relationship? How long to wait to have the talk?
I'm dating a guy long distance, he lives on the other side of the world. So far, we spend one week together last year in July and almost 2 weeks in December/January. However, we're not an official couple yet. How long...
Anonymous
(25-29) I cheated on my boyfriend before we were official?
im ready to receive harsh words and judgments from this. I met this guy (now my bf) last year, month of June. we talked everyday, started going out, confessed feelings for each other. during this time, I went on a night...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I ask him where we stand in the relationship?
We’ve been dating for 6 months long distance. He’s from South America and I’m from Europe. First he came to visit me for a week and then 5 months later I spend two weeks when I visited him. So far I think we’re exclusive...
Merel111
Xper 5 Age: 28 Any advice to meet new people?
So, I'll start by giving a bit of background. I come from a very unstable and troubled country. Circumstaces as they were, pushed me to emigrate to Europe where I'm currently am now. I left behind my home country, my...
DanDavid
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is a “promise ring” intended to move a relationship forward or a way for men to placate women?
The story/ fluff: This guy and I have been together for a little over a year now. He and his ex-wife have been separated for a while but the court proceedings have dragged on due to all his assets (he is a millionaire so...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex-girlfriends new boyfriend messaged me on facebook. What should I do?
So basically my ex-girlfriend from 2 years ago messaged me (I broke up with her.) 1 month ago before the official 2 years since the breakup she started friend requesting my friends and I. My friends knew she wasn't the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good Results... Read This! (Part 3)
[This is a continuation of two myTakes posted over the past two days. See Part 1 here: Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good Results...Read This! (Part 1) and Part 2 here: Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good...
u When to Go Exclusive
I've been thinking about doing a Take on this topic for quite some time. I've seen some people do everything right - approaching confidently, communicating well, planning and going on great dates only to trip and fall...
She told me all this, but what do you think she’s trying to tell me?
Long story short is that I cut contact with her some time ago, and recently got back in touch with her. I don’t exactly know how best I can describe what we had, but it was neither pure friendship or an official...
Anonymous
(30-35) Making the proposal to my girlfriend
As of late, it has been quite a tense period for me and my girlfriend. She's very stressed at her job as a nurse, just had something of a breakdown for a mistake she made and it was taking a toll on her. I had (and...
The Point of Love
I'm just curious, what is the point of love? If love was to have 2 people come together and be able to satisfy basically Maslows Hierarchy if you really think of it from a psychological perspective of it? I understand the...
lenlenxyz
Xper 5 Age: 31 I’m not sure what to do?
I’ve been seeing this guy for what I was exclusively for about two months (no official label). We have been talking recently about being in a serious relationship for a little over a month. However he told me that he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Debunking “sovieboo” romanticization of the Soviet Union
Totalitarian regimes come and go. Some last more than others. But one of these regimes managed to last almost a century. This regime was the Soviet Union, the world’s first communist state. Just like many other...
Should I Ask Him To Be My Boyfriend?
I've been dating this guy for four months now and I really like him! About 3 months into us dating he asked me to be his girlfriend but I wasn't ready yet so I told him I wanted to wait longer. I brought him home to meet...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do the things he do get to me?
I’ve been with my man for 4 months. I know it’s not that long. He tells me he sees me in his future and that I’m wifey material; wants to spend the rest of his life with me stuff. What irks me is, does the things he do...
Anonymous
(30-35) My review of The Man in the high castle season 4(series finale)
And so we close the final chapter on a great web series that will be greatly missed. I enjoyed all 4 seasons of this phenomenal alternate history sci fi web series. It will be a while before we get another show of it’s...
Anonymous
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