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My boyfriend and I have always gone to the gym together but within the past year, his “boys” have been tagging along as well. I didn’t mind it at first but now it’s getting exhausting… they talk so loud (even with noise cancelling headphones on I can still hear them), take up the entire gym, always taking pictures, take 10-15 mins breaks between sets, etc.

I mean I love them, they’re all super chill, but seeing them 4-5x a week at the gym where it used to be my place for “escape” is starting to burn me out. I’ve asked my boyfriend if we can just work out where it’s just the two of us but he said it’s a public gym and he can’t control when they’re gonna come (but then he always tells them the time and day of when he’s gonna be at the gym… he even invited more of his friends to work out together at the same gym, at the same time… it’s now a group of 6-7 boys + my boyfriend). I would love to hang out with them outside of the gym, but the gym should be a place to work out not to hang out right?

I offered to go to the gym separately so I can enjoy some quiet gym time but my boyfriend insisted that we go together. I’ve had stalkers at the gym in the past and my bf’s now a bit paranoid which is why we always go together. But it’s driving me nuts… I just want some peace and quiet… I feel bad for feeling this way, but I can’t stand it anymore :(

P. S. I’m also an introvert so hanging out with loud extroverted people 4-5x a week drains me lol

we're in our spring musicals production. he's hook. im smee. you know the drill.

i cracked a couple jokes about having no mom, a couple other people did to, he cracked a couple, we established it was chill. He has now talked to my mother and went "How much did they pay you?", which she finds hilarious, and pretends he believes my father asexually reproduced. it's become one big inside joke.

however, there is a song in peter pan jr. it's called "Wendy". And they sing about how wendy will be their mom and they finally have a mother. i let him make jokes during the song, but i won't let another one of our friends because he goes too far.

But a couple of my friends have been saying this is just me hardcore simping for a dumb blonde with glasses who's personality is being dramatic and smarter than most people. (which im the same way, except for the glasses and blonde)

am i just being a total doormat cause i like him?

I was at a friend's party. I have met his brother before but this is the first time we really chatted, about nothing in particular. he's quite attractive, reticent and chill, albeit mischievous. I didn't chat too much at the party, kept it low key.

As the night died down, a few of us were left, drinking and chatting. We both got along well, both of us were chill and quiet while others chatted. We talked a few times across the room, friendly and smiley, nothing crazy. Once everyone left, we all cleaned up and had some laughs about the night. Both he and I both slept over my friend's apartment.

The next morning, a few of us were watching TV and chatting, getting along. At some point when everyone was quiet, watching the show, my friends brother and I locked eyes across the room for a very long time, around 4-5 seconds of super intense eye contact. He looked into my eyes very calmly and confidently and I did the same back. Neither of us smiled but there was a noticeable intensity and potency to it, but nothing creepy or scary but rather... intense.

I can't tell what happened between us. It's really sticking in my head. The intensity of his look, I liked it a lot. He felt very confident and self assured.

I left and there was an awkward side hug and thats all.